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Would You and If So Why?

I've just watched the film Cocoon.  It got me thinking would I go off with the Aliens and why would I do it.

Well first off yes I would without hesitation.  Why?  Because I happen to think the boss Alien Walter is really dishy and sexy  hehe.

Seriously I would go because if there are others out there in the vast Universe of ours I'd like to meet them, find out if they really are more evolved than us, find out if being more evolved means they are more enlightened, To find out if beings, who are so very different from each other in appearance are actually just the same on the inside. Wouldn't it be just brilliant.

Anyway it would be a great way to avoid paying my taxes. 

Let Go Of The Future

The most used phrase of our modern times when it comes to moving forward in our lives is, “Let Go Of  The Past” then and only then can you step into the future.

But what about the fact that so many people are trying to live the future now, that can be just as damaging as living in the past.

You see to be truly happy, content and serene you have to understand that what happens to, and how you react to, the now, the here, the today will have an affect on your tomorrow. 

Some people spend a good part of their lives going round in circles coming back to the same point time and time again, this is because they try to live their future now and thus miss the lesson they are really being given.

It is no good living yesterday today because you can’t change what happened you can only change your reaction to what happened.  You can’t live tomorrow today because how you perceive you will react to something and how you actually react to it are two different things because reactions come from emotions and your emotions may not be the same tomorrow as they are today.

So if you want a life of contentment, peace, abundance and happiness, forget there was a yesterday, forget there is tomorrow and live as if today was the only time.  If I see something that I would really like but don’t need and can’t afford anyway,  I remind myself “hey, you’ve managed this far without it, you can manage a bit further”. 

There is no need to hanker after what you might be getting because what you have now is what you need now and now is all that matters. Now is what you need to be grateful for.

Blessings.

I'm Not You

You may think

I’m not the brightest book on the shelf;  But I know about things that matter.

I may not have the looks of a model;  But I make the most of what I have

I may not dress in designer clothes;  But I feel as if I am

I may not be a Michelin Star chef;  But I cook up a tasty meal

I may not have a perfect body;  But I know how to carry myself

I’m not always top of the class;  But I’m the best I can be

Sometimes I get it wrong;  But I would never deliberately hurt you.

You may think I ask too much of you sometimes;  But I don’t expect more than I am willing to give.

If you think I’m being hard on you;  Know it’s hard on me to be that way..

Please remember my heart, my body and my soul belong to me, I just let you share it sometimes.

Blessings.

Dalai Lama Wisdom - Love & Compassion Part 5

Love and compassion are the ultimate source of human happiness, and our need for them lies at the very core of our being.

A Good Heart

A good mind, a good heart, warm feelings - these are the most important things.

Real Love

Real love is not based on attachments

Love Does Not Discriminate

The kind of love we advocate is the love you can have even for someone who has done harm to you.  This kind of love is to be extended to all living beings, and it can be extended to all living beings.

I Could Bring Back Your Lover - But I’d Prefer To Give You Your Divine Right.

Seriously I could bring them back but I’d probably have to break their knee caps to get them to comply.

Now wouldn’t it be much better if I gave you what is your Divine Right to have because then you would be able to keep it.

You see quite often we want something for the wrong reasons and that is why things don’t work out for us.

Now if I could give you the very thing you seek which is happiness and you could make that happiness last for the rest of your life, wouldn’t that be so much better.

I have been given a Spirit blessed ritual, spell, call it what you like, it is very powerful and is everlasting.  I can’t do it for you, you have to do it for yourself, it’s easy to initiate, but it takes effort on your part to maintain it once it’s started.  It’s not for those looking for a quick fix option or for those looking to make someone do that which they don’t want to do, it’s for those who really truly want to make their life work for them.  It doesn’t involve dancing naked round a camp fire with a feather stuck up your backside, this is serious Spirit based stuff.

There is no time limit but as you move through the ritual you find it gets easier to maintain and with each passing day you will find yourself becoming lighter, freer and happier, until the ritual/spell reaches it’s final conclusion.

You are the one doing the work and you are the one who has to maintain it, I can only support you not do it for you and I will be available to you on reduced fee calls for as long as the ritual is active, or via e-mail.  

If you would like to know more information please feel free to e-mail me and I will discuss the finer points with you.  It involves making a commitment to yourself to want what is best for you.

Please note this isn’t a “bring back your lover” spell this is a “bring me what is mine by Divine right” ritual.

Believe me this thing really does work, I have two clients currently going through this “ritual” and their lives have been turned around big time. 

If you are really serious about wanting your life to be the best it possibly can be then contact me and let’s get the show on the road.  Lets face it you’ve tried everything else so now do the one thing that works. 

Blessings.

Just In Case You Have The Wrong Impression

I have had various e-mails recently from other readers with suggestions on how to get my call volume back up.  I have had a drastic drop in the number of calls I am receiving and at a loss to why this has happened.

Recently there has been some “uncomfortable” public exchanges between readers and I wanted to write this to assure you, our clients, that we aren’t all at each other throats, we don’t always diss each other in fact I would say we help each other out more times than not.

We are in competition with each, but we also understand that we won’t all suit the same client because we all approach readings from a different angle with different gifts to call on to give you the best we can. 

I have had help and really good feedback from some unexpected people, I say unexpected because I haven’t had any dialogue with them in the past but they have been willing to pass on some of the things they do, and that in itself has given me a boost and helps me “hang on in there”. 

There are some who are just wanting to make a buck in anyway they can, but there are more readers on Keen who really genuinely want to help not just their clients but anyone they see struggling.  The help they offer may just be an ear to bend, or encouragement to stand firm in the face of adversity, it may be more practical help.

Whatever form help comes in, open your arms and embrace it, because that hug you get may be the very thing you need to calm you down enough to see the next bit of help coming your way, and the next bit of help may just be the catalyst to bigger and better things for you.

I am going to take this opportunity to say Thank You to all my clients for your feedback which helps me to constantly improve on my delivery, if I get tough with you it's because Spirit has asked me to, so you can move forward easier and to a less painful place.  

Thank you to the readers who have come forward with a hug and with encouragement and those who have shared their secrets for a successful business with me, you didn’t have to do that and you have restored my faith and shown that even though we are in competition with each other it dosn't mean we are enemies, after all we are all walking the same path. 

Blessings.

It’s Always Worth Giving It A Go.

I received an e-mail yesterday from someone giving me a pat on the back because of something I had done. 

I was really surprised by the e-mail because previously and publicly this person had been very detrimental to me and made scathing comments about my work practices.

I sat looking at the e-mail trying to decide whether to ignore it or not, in the end I replied asking why they had e-mailed me patting me on the back when previously they had been less than nice to me and about me.

I got back an e-mail stating they didn’t know what had led them to e-mail me and it was obviously a mistake on their part.

Now I know Spirit and been the push behind the original e-mail so I didn’t give up.  A few more e-mails flew backwards and forwards each one calmer and more chatty than the last and eventually hugs were given.

This morning I woke up to an e-mail from this person that simply said “I’m sorry”.  You have no idea how much that started my day off with a zing.

Because of what had happened in the past I could have simply ignored the original e-mail, but I’m a great believer that people can change and do change, I took some of my own advice and saw them as an enema rather than an enemy.

I believe it’s always worth trying to reach out the hand of friendship to someone, up to them whether they grab a hold of it or not.

If Spirit puts someone in your path, it has happened for a reason not always for you but it could be for them, take the opportunity to offer the hand of friendship, if you get knocked back don’t worry it’s not your fault the other person just isn’t ready yet, but when they are they will move towards you in friendship, because even if they knock you back they will know the door is open when they are ready.

Give a hug instead of a bug.

Blessings.

Would You Want To Spend Time With You?

That’s my answer to you in response to your question to me, "why don’t they want to be with m"?

If you wouldn’t want to spend time with yourself then how can you expect anyone else to want to spend time with you.

I know it’s painful when someone walks away from us, and to add to that pain is sometimes a total lack of understanding why they did it.  But there are simply some things we just cannot understand, and chances are even if we were given an explanation we still wouldn’t  fully understand because we would see things from our own point of view and not theirs. There comes a time when we have to let it go. 

Would you like your lasting memories of yourself to be as someone who was clingy, who just wouldn’t let go, someone who didn’t respect themselves let alone someone else.  Would you like to be remembered as a real pain in the butt.

So many ruin the chances of reconciliation, or of meeting someone new, because they are constantly chasing after something that simply isn’t there, trying to live their yesterdays today.

When does the hurt go away from a broken relationship, when you decide to let the hurt go, when you decide there is more to you than a wounded person and more to life than being hurt.

Ask yourself would you want to go back to you after the way you have been acting? The choice is yours, it’s not easy getting over a broken relationship but it shouldn’t be stopping you from living either.  

Blessings

Need Help With A Bit Of A Problem Please Peeps.

I know in Native American Medicine when you are asking Great Spirit for something if you wish you can leave an offering of tobacco.

Would it be being disrespectful if I left an offering of tobacco in the hands of my Buddha, after doing my meditation with the Buddha this morning I have felt the urge to leave some tobacco in her hands, but I don't want to be disrespectful to either religion.

Any thoughts or help on this would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Trinity

When You Listen To Spirit, Take Any Action Necessary, You Will Find Freedom

(Sorry this is so long but I wanted to tell this with as much detail as I could)

The strangest thing happened to me this morning.  I was writing a blog (not this one) and as I was writing it I knew it just wasn’t right, it was all jumbled up and my thoughts were not transferring to the page properly.  As I always do when I can’t get my thoughts straight or if I am feeling over emotional, I went and had a shower, don’t know what it is but having a shower sorts me out.

I had only been in the shower about 1 minute when it came to me what I should do and ultimately what I should blog about today.

Now I’m not a great one for ceremonies and rituals because I believe it’s not the ceremony that makes things happen it’s the focus you give while taking part in the ceremony or ritual that makes the difference.

I was told to light a white candle and a joss stick, write down on a piece of paper what it was I was hoping for and an alternative in case the hope wasn’t available, take the piece of paper and the candle and joss stick into the garden, fold the paper and put it underneath the meditating stone Buddha (my daughter bought for me, which incidentally I thought about her doing before she did it and without saying anything to her) put the candle and the joss stick down next to the Buddha and sit in silent meditation in front of the Buddha until the joss stick had burnt out.  Then leaving the candle burning go about my day.

I was busy trying to talk myself out of sitting in my garden with a candle and joss stick burning thinking the neighbours will think I’m nuts, when it was pointed out to me by Spirit that I do my yoga in the garden every other day, I burn joss sticks in the garden all the time and anyway my neighbours think I’m nuts already so seeing me sitting on my patio facing my Buddha with a joss stick and candle burning will make them happy for the day because they will know they were right about me.

Having waited until my daughter left for college so I could do this without interruption I followed the instructions.

Spirit says I am not allowed to tell you what I wrote on the paper, that is between me and the Universe, but as I walked into the garden the candle blew out, so I went back inside and relit it, but as it was a windy morning it kept blowing out, eventually after I had tried lighting it again and again a voice said the candle isn’t important, move your focus away from it and onto what you are doing.  I bowed to the Buddha set the joss stick and candle next to her and then sat facing her, I read aloud the words on the paper, folded it and put it under her.  Then sat in quiet meditation with her.

Spirit says it’s okay to tell you I saw, a fierce dragon but no fire, I saw a face in the Buddha’s solar plexus but not clearly and I saw a red dot the size that would be made by a laser beam just where the heart is.  At one point the wind really got up but I sat my ground.  I said a prayer, thanked Buddha, Spirit says the rest is up to faith.

I’m not sure how I feel, lighter maybe I don’t know that I can describe it, certainly my smile has widened and I know that something will happen and it will be good, when it’s going to happen doesn’t matter.

That little voice you hear inside you is Spirit, and when you listen and take any action that is being asked of you, one thing is certain you will always end up feeling better than you did when you first heard the voice.  So next time a little voice is telling you to do something no matter how odd or quirky it may seem, even if it is telling you to do the opposite of what you want to do, and you know it’s from Spirit, listen to it and take action, it really is for your own good.

Blessings

Who Are Your Thoughts Like?

Some of  my thoughts are like my relatives annoying to have, even more annoying to be around, sometimes over staying their welcome, try to bully me into doing things their way, and really difficult to break free from.

Then there are the thoughts that are like my cats, sleepy, comforting, sometimes scratchy, laughable, always around somewhere but not intruding, sometimes embarrassing when I have visitors.

Then the ones like my daughter, loving, kind, needing me to nurture them, lying around somewhere all day and just disappear out in the evening.  Sometimes demanding my undivided attention, other times not wanting to know me.  Love me when the answer is yes, defiant when the answer is no.  Loud and thumping when wanting attention, shy and quiet when unsure.

My thoughts are like people that I love and some that I’d rather not love.  But my favourite thoughts are the ones I send out full of love, compassion, forgiveness and wanting the best for all concerned, because when I get those ones back I remember thoughts have feelings too.

Blessings.

Is Fear Stopping You From Really Living Your Life?

Fear starts off as a symptom of the cause of your thinking, very quickly it can become the cause of your actions.

There are few fears that we are not able to get rid of if we know the true cause of our fearful thinking.  My daughter has a fear of spiders, now it’s not the spiders she is actually afraid of it’s what they could do to her, this fear manifested itself when she was bitten by a spider at a young age, she remembers what it felt like to be bitten and now when she sees a spider it triggers the unhappy memory and her thoughts apply the memory to all spiders.  Her fear of spiders is triggered by a memory of a bad time if she could let go of the memory then the fear would not have a hold on her. .

Usually we can trace our fearful thoughts back to something unpleasant that has happened in the past, it might not have happened to us but someone we were close to and when we find ourselves in a similar scenario we project the unpleasant memories of it into the future and then the symptom of fearing the future appears.  If you can let go of painful memories from the past you won’t have any fear to project into the future. Sometimes the fear isn't even yours you are reacting to someone else fear.

To let go of fear you have to let go of memories that trigger the fearful thinking, and to do that you have to go to the root cause of those memories.

It is no good facing the fear and doing it anyway if you don’t know the root cause of the fearful thinking, because all you will do is deal with the symptom but the cause will still be there and it will eventually rear it’s ugly head again, and you will continue to manifest the cause of your fear because you are not getting rid of it.

It can sometimes be a painful thing to look at but once you get rid of it that’s it, it no longer has a hold on you and can no longer dictate to you what your actions will be and thus you are free from fearful thinking and free to walk forward with confidence knowing that something that harmed you in the past can’t do so again.

Blessings.

Are You Attracting “Commitment Phobics”?

Do you constantly wonder why you get involved with men who won’t commit, it is quite possible the cause is not the men but you. You may have a deep seated fear of committing yourself to a relationship and thus in turn you are attracting “commitment phobic” men to you.

The fear of committing to a relationship may be so deep rooted that you will deny feeling this way, quite often when we follow a pattern caused by fear we will deny it is us that has the problem.  Attracting “commitment phobic” men allows you to deny to yourself you have a problem and also allows you to play the victim thus exonerating you of any blame for the break up of your relationships.

There comes a time when you have to sit back and ask yourself why you are attracting the same type of men over and over again, why you are following the same pattern over and over again.  There comes a time when you have to admit to yourself it can’t always be the fault of the other person but that you must be playing a role in the relationships not working out.

You may have grown up hearing your parents constantly bickering and this has put you off, or you may have been in a relationship that hurt you badly and subconsciously you are afraid if you get too close to someone you will end up being hurt again.

Until you admit to the way you really feel about commitment you will carry on following the same pattern.

Blessings.

Weekly Medicine Card - Antelope

Antelope

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Are You Really Talking About Yourself?

I have heard the saying “A leopard can’t change it’s spots” being told about various people and I wonder what on earth people are meaning, well I know what they are meaning but what are they really meaning.

What they are really saying is that they don’t believe the person they have directed this remark to has got the capacity to change how they think, behave etc, they have basically put the other person down.

Who is anyone to say that someone else can’t change the way they are, it is purely up to the individual whether we change ourselves or not.  Just because someone isn’t changing in the way we think they should or in the time we think they should doesn’t mean they won’t change, it means they are not ready to change yet.

You see it’s back to that old, what we see in others is more than likely in us too, and if we see something in someone else that we feel should be changed we need to ask our self is that something which needs to be changed in me. 

We attract people who have the same qualities as we do good and bad, so before you put someone else down, look at yourself and see if that very same quality isn’t residing in you, and instead of making a remark like “A leopard can’t change it’s spots” think of ways you could help that person make changes through your actions.

Blessings