Yay! It’s Another Holiday! You want to be seen together but his family and friends are falling down drunk. Though they are the ones out of control, they feel sorry for you. They think you are very dull. Worse, most of them feel a “friend” is someone that sits down and gets drunk with you. It is a special bonding to them.
It’s a dilemma that is not easy for many couples. If you are truly close with the one you love, here are some suggestions.
· Decide it won’t cause a break up if you both do your own thing some days.
· Neither of you are tied to the hip and that’s a blessing!
· Discuss the issue that being opposites is OK. It just makes common sense to save your endearing similarities for each other. Its ok not be insulted if you do some things alone.
THE MOST PRECIOUS GIFT YOU CAN GIVE IS TRUST.
Trust must be earned. The worst thing you can do is hang on and whine with jealous rage to someone you love that has earned your trust.. Instead, go out with friends! Have fun! Do the things your friends love to do. Don’t ruin your day/evening. If you absolutely can’t tolerate fall down drunks, and he wants to camp out with those that do, don’t you feel a bit bad drinking coffee or sipping wine with dear ones.
I am a Liberal Psychic Reader married to a Republican, Old Navy Nascar fan. He loves beer and standing around pick up trucks with the boys. I love sipping wine and coffee in rapt discussion with friends. We have been married 10 years and giving each other independence has made all things possible.
If we can do it, so can you. Get out there and love your Holiday.
David left “for good” just like three other times. He said he would be back for his stuff on the weekend. He didn’t. Four weeks later a pair of his dirty underwear was still on the floor and three of his shirts were folded on top of Nancy’s dresser. Worse, he still had the key to her apartment. At any given moment he could walk right in. Or would he? It was a daily hell trying to figure him out. Nancy cried a lot and wrapped his shirts around her to feel his presence.
TEXT MESSAGES
David left a lot of text messages for Nancy.
“Be back when I have time to think.”
“Do you love me?” Nancy would text back..
“You know how I feel” he quickly messaged back.
Somehow Nancy always felt worse after these messages. This was old stuff. Why did she owe him time to think? One day she shoved all his belongings in black garbage bags and tossed them in the hall way….
TEXT MESSAGE
“Come and get your stuff. It’s in the hall.”
“WHAT?” he texed back.
“I want my key back.”
“You know I love you.” He messaged back.
“YOU CALL THIS LOVE?”
“Lets talk. Be there at 6:30” he text promised back.
HE DIDN’T EVEN KNOCK
David didn’t come at the time he said he would. Nancy cried herself to sleep.
That night David unlocked the door with the key he still had, and slipped into bed.
She knew it was unfair. He had waited until she was too tired to confront him.
The next day the black garbage bags were sitting in the living room.
David had come back to stay but for how long?
NO TRUST
Each time the “Come Back Kid” syndrome happened Nancy trusted David less..
She feared he had slept around while he was gone. What disease did he come back with?
The name of the game began to be “Who owed who more?” Did Nancy owe him quiet acceptance to make him feel comfortable? {He might leave again.}
Did David owe Nancy shopping sprees and dinner out for leaving and making her cry?
They were locked in a pattern they could not get out of.
NANCY’S PSYCHIC READING
Nancy was stressed. She felt like screaming when ever she went to work.
One day she called a Psychic. She was hoping for good news to make her feel better.
PSYCHIC: What is your first name please?
“Nancy,”
PSYCHIC: I see you are deeply sad and feel like a hurt child.”
YES, I DO FEEL THAT WAY.
PSYCHIC: “Nancy, the man you love has become spoiled. In many ways he feels as if you are like his mother. Your love is unconditional. Its time for tough love.”
“YES I FEEL THIS” confirmed Nancy.
PSYCHIC: “What is the name of this person Nancy?”
“DAVID”
PSYCHIC: David is seen being in love with you. However the more he feels his need to be with you the more he also is afraid of growing up. He knows he owes you the next level. Responsibility and Commitment are not what he wants at this time.
YES I FEEL THIS.
PSYCHIC: Nancy, its time to teach David how to treat you. You have become too available….too patient.
I FEEL THIS TOO.
PSYCHIC: Yes. Each time you take him back he feels it becomes easier to disrespect you.
I KNOW. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
PSYCHIC: Your best coarse of action is to separate for 2 months on your own terms.
HE ALWAYS TAKES THE KEY AND LEAVES HIS STUFF.
PSYCHIC: The advice seen and felt Nancy is to make a date for him to leave on your own terms. Stick to your guns. Give him a date, say goodbye. If he leaves in a rush take his belongings to a friend.. Change the locks on your doors if he takes the key.
WHAT IF HE DOES NOT COME BACK?
PSYCHIC: This is your life and you must do what you want. Nancy, is it being good to your Angles to hurt and cry? Is this the love you want to claim for the rest of your life? Be strong. You will be proud you did. If in 2 months this man has not changed his attitude move on. Draw a circle around NOVEMBER. That is enough time for him to understand you demand respect.
I WILL TRY
PSYCHIC: Nancy? There is another man seen for you in 2009. There is seen a wonderful person who will cherish and love you. The future is changeable with your wise actins.
THANK YOU FOR BEING HONEST WITH ME.
CONCLUSION
In many ways Nancy felt the Psychic confirmed what she already knew. The odd part is she had only given names. She had not been asked for any details. Better yet, Nancy felt lighter. It was not a friend or relative offering advice or insisting she listen to them. Nancy had gone to the Psychic on her own accord and her privacy was sacred.
The moment Judy walked into the healing room for her session the sound of beautiful soothing music wrapped around her. She immediately relaxed. Her Intuitive Healer realized her mothering image was defined by the quality of the soothing music she played. Soon her client return doubled. She was amazed how the type of music she played began to be her trade mark. It added a professional touch.
I FIND THAT TEARS FLOW AND THE CLIENT - READER BONDING IS MORE INTENSE WITH SOFT NEW AGE MUSIC IN THE BACK GROUND.
As a Hypnotherapist as well as a Psychic Reader, and often combining the two fields in one session, I notice the following interesting dynamics when I play soothing music:
- I match my speaking voice to the dynamic of the music,
- When the music is soft, I become soft. I let the music map my speaking voice.
- I at all times read the energy of my client, and am aware that my voice and my tone and rhythm must fluctuate like the music.
- Hurry my words too fast and I can create tension in my client .
- Become too monotone, or ignore the ups and downs of my vocal tone, it is as if I step out of time with my Meditation music and risk turning a great session into a low energy boredom.
- May I suggest "Pathless Journey" by Daniel Kobialka?
- http://www.danielkobialka.com/
WHAT ABOUT MEDITATION AND MUSIC?
You don't need a healer to heal your self with Meditation. Find some soothing music you especially love.
- Look for music you get lost in
- Remember that the more soothing and Spatial the music is, the more it calms your beta waves.
- There are actually websites where you can download CDS of Meditation bells that time your sessions in groups of 5, 10 & 15 minute sessions.
- Play your music on a back ground CD player, set your Meditation timer, and relax.
- Take a journey through the music you have chosen to Meditate with.
- http://www.dharmacrafts.com/104xBG/2050CD/end-chime-for-meditation-cd.html
The "Tone" trick of Gamboling Casinos, Televised Churches & Mega Seminars
Ever notice that when you walk into a Gamboling Casino the people seem as if in a trance state? Many casinos use the continuous key of C piped into the back ground behind the bells and sounds of levers and change falling. The key of C is the same note in Ommmmmmmmmmmm. This famous tone goes beyond meditation. Into the wrong hands, subtly tucked behind the front noises, the Key of C can add a trance state that makes people susceptible to giving or spending money. .
I believe Psychic Lines would be benefited by a hint of soft healing music {chosen and down loaded by the reader} piped in through the phone as a back ground tone. That I know of this feature has never been offered by a Psychic company and I would love to see Keen be the first to try it. It would give the element of relaxation and soothing relief to a nervous seeker. {Press #3 to cancel background music} Of course it would need to be the choice of each reader to have their own signature melody....with option to have none.
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Foot binding, bottom rib removal, lip plates, stretched necks adorned with twenty gold rings, pierced ears and tattoos have been all about catching a mate. In the name of beauty women have done some crazy things to themselves.
CHINESE FOOT BINDING – In the name of beauty
Over 1000 years ago the prince's concubine, Yao Niang, walked so gracefully it appeared as if she was "skimming over the top of golden lilies." Chinese Foot Binding became all the rage.
Suddenly every man wanted a woman with beautiful 3 to 4 inch "Lotus Blossom" feet. Young girl’s feet were wrapped tightly with cloth binding. This stunted foot growth from the age of 6 yrs old. As young girls endured their pain, they embroidered and beaded tiny slippers in preparation for their reward, a "Cindarella prince" husband. In the name of beauty women altered themselves. Here are two tiny pairs of 4 to 5 inch women's shoes.
TINY 16 - 18 INCH WAISTS WERE CREATED BY CORSETS SO TIGHT THEY INJURED INTERNAL ORGANS. BOTTOM RIBS WERE REMOVED IN THE NAME OF BEAUTY.
A 2008 model's blog reports a new procedure is being done by an L.A. surgeon for models. Their bottom ribs are removed to give the appearance of a sleek svelte waist line. This procedure is nothing new. A few Victorian women of wealth and drama had thier bottom ribs removed. In these days sugery was often risky and led to infection. In the name of beauty they altered them selves.
LIP PLATES - In the Name of Beauty - Southwest Ethiopia
Southwest, Ethiopia, women altered themselves for a husband. {Tribal Alteration is again becoming the style for some modern people who see it as a spiritual rite.}
Little by little a plug of wood in the lips becomes a disk, which then leads to a plaque. The warrior of her tribe who marries her will be the only one allowed to do this procedure, and is a claim of marriage. In persuit of marriage women alter themsleves
EAR PIERCING - In the name of beauty
Ear piercing was first used as a rite of passage. As in the case of Egyptians, Romans, Greeks as well as Tribal cultures of the world, ear piercing was a way to show wealth and status.
Ear Piercing is still a celebration passage. Young girls mark maturity by wearing pierced earrings. In young adulthood as sexuality and allurement reach their peak, ear piercing and even face piercing become more elaborate. Make no doubt about it, ear piercing is about physical allurement.
TATOOS - In the name of Beauty
While young and supple, skin tattoos can be stunningly exotic and alluring. In the name of allurement, women alter themselves.
Neck Rings - "The Long Neck Tribe" of Burmese-Thai
The women walk slowly and stately as if in a dream. From the age of 6, each year a few rings are snapped around a young girls neck until 20 rings in all have created a long giraffe neck. Only on their wedding night do the women remove the rings.
After their wedding night, one of the only nights the rings come off, the rings must go back on as the women's neck muscles are too weak. In the name of beauty they alter themselves.
Spiritual Message: We all define the attraction methods in which we, or our children, will be allowed to allure mates. Whether it is of the body through alteration, or by absorbing knowledge to allure with the intellect, it is a personal and cultural choice. The struggel is often hardest for the parents watching new styles come and go. It seems once the flamboyant mating dance of youth is completed it is the job of the next generation to watch and shake their head in disbelief. As women of the NOW we have come a long ways in our personal rights to claim spiritual happiness and how we will attract.
Sometimes we know when our Spirituality is in crisis by the hollow feeling in the pit of our stomach. It feels like we are alone, and as if everyone has abandoned us. Probably the worst thing we can do is ignore it. It seems when we do this the following things happen;
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We eat too much mistaking loneliness for hunger.
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We over medicate with alcohol or drugs to make the hollow feeling go away.
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We mistake horniness for loneliness, and feel ripped off when orgasm leads to home alone.
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We gamble, replacing ‘Wins’…..to fill empty feelings of ‘Loss.’.
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We become thrill seekers, toying with death to replace fear of life..
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We impulse shop for perfect shoes and clothing, cars or trinkets, and come home depressed and drained.
WHEN OUR ANGELS ARE SPEAKING TO US, HOW DO WE KNOW? R.S.V.P!
R.S.V.P. means "please reply." Will you accept or decline your angels invitation?
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A baby’s cries are audible when in crisis; our Angels speak silently.
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An animal’s eyes and verbal sounds ask for attention; not so our inner Angels.
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Our Angles speak through our gut. The hollow feeling within says loud and clear ‘PAY ATTENTION TO ME.’
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Food, gamboling, sex, thrill seeking are like placing our hands over our ears and singing ‘LA LA LA…I CAN’T HEAR YOU.’
HOW DO WE PAY ATTENTION TO OUR ANGELS?
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Anything that gives you time to reflect…….ponder……go within, is communication with your inner Angel.
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It can be 20 minutes sitting cross legged as you rock back and forth thinking nothing at all. [You are emotionally reaching within.]
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A half hour of Yoga in the morning alone, focusing within through stretches.
· Random Bible or Spiritual reading before sleep. Close your eyes, flip the pages. Let your finger randomly fall on a page. Read it.
· Bonding in a Spiritual church or spatial circle with like minded people.
· Give yourself permission to shut off inner chatter.
· Focus on any moods going on within you.
TAKE A WALK WITH YOUR ANGEL
Give your Angel permission to lead you through a walk, to a face, an encounter on the streets, a conversation or day dream……..to a piece of information that triggers an immediate excitement within you. Let it happen in its own time which could be in hours, days or even weeks.
THERE WILL BE AN EXILLERATING UPLIFTING FEELING WHEN YOU HAVE CONNECTED TO YOUR ANGEL.
An excitement will fill you, as if having a great idea. It will be as if you have received light, or as if a light bulb has popped over your head.
WHAT IS NOT ANGEL COMMUNICATION?
· A tired draining feeling is not Angel Communication.
· Intellectual brain chatter is not Angel Guidance.
· Analyzing things to death is not Angel Guidance, but an addiction to intellectual mind chatter.
Angel Guidance feels like a warm feeling of positive hope. Intuition is like an internal telephone that announces Angel Guidance.
Your Angels are speaking to you. Are you listening?
Ann Marie is an Angel Guided Tarot Channeler with 37 years Professional Psychic Counseling Reading experience and over 12,000+ client feedbacks. Truthful guidance on love, career, pets, dream interpretation, women's spirituality and family will be given in an earthy, laid back manner.
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Jane went to work every day, kept her mouth shut, and tried to get along best she could. Often she felt like she was on the outside looking in with Co Workers. She was in love with a man that never included her with his friends. She tried not to whine.
Sometimes she wanted to scream she was so frustrated. She knew she needed a new job....somewhere people would treat her right. The problem was every new job started great, and then she felt ignored again. This also happened in her personal relationships.
SHE CALLED ME TO ASK WHEN A NEW JOB WOULD COME.
I pointed out her pattern, and that she did an outstanding job at work. People appreciated her ethical polite attitude. They used to love her JOY. But because her pattern was to over analyze her words and actions to the extreme once the CHALLENGE of making new friends at work was accomplished, she self sabotaged herself. She became TOO respectful of the work politics and CHANGED. People suddenly didn't know her any more. Her Joy was gone.
SHE ASKED “WHEN WOULD SHE MEET A GUY WHO TRUELY TREATED HER RIGHT?”
Consequently, she also did this "CHANGE" with the present man she loved. Once the CHALLENGE to get him was accomplished, she self sabotaged. Her JOY was gone. She, just like with Co Workers, over analyzed her every action and his. What seemed simple.....became complex. She cared TOO MUCH, whined and became respectfully needy. At the same time she saw herself as if through a microscope and hated it. That’s when she WITH DREW.
"DON'T LOOK FOR A NEW JOB SALLY UNTIL YOU PRACTISE HOW TO STOP SABOTAGING YOUR PRESENT WORK “DYNAMICS."
Otherwise, I warned her, you will risk repeating this same exact pattern at the next job, and the next job......Use your present job as PRACTISE in shutting out "over thinking” Co Workers and Personal Relationships. BRING BACK THE JOY!
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People are mirroring back your paranoia of them.
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Sally, you are so trapped in your own head you don't see what’s really happening.
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Absolutely there are good and bad people. Not your problem.
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Remember to take your Co Worker practice also to your current relationship.
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Bring the challenge to YOUR SELF in refusing to over analyze every word and action as a threat.
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When you have the art of letting go, back, and shut out the negative inner brain chatter, you will see people become JOYFUL around you again.
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So there you are surrounded by a thousand memories of him. The gifts he gave you tear at your heart and bring tendor moments to your mind. Its like his living spirit is squeezing the breath from you . He's made it clear he is not interested in communicating any more. You keep telling yourself you are done! But there you are writing one more letter to explain how he hurt you. You wonder if he even reads them. And you are right. You are lucky if he gets through the first two paragraphs of your five page letter.
Then it occurs to you it would really tear his guts apart if you sent back each and every gift he gave you. You tell your self it would be a way to show you are really through. You know its another way to get him to communicate...good or bad. You are lucky if he does either. Its the total Arrogance that hurts most.
YOU NEED A CEREMONY TO LET GO
- Don't fool your self that sending back his old gifts is a closed door.
- In most cases, returning gifts leads to more angry communication.
- Actions speak louder then words. You've had enough!
- Take charge! Burning all pathways is final. No more maipulation.
If the possesions are too precious to give away or burn, give them to a Good Will or Salvationa Army. Release jewelry to friends in a distant town.
The Burning of love letters is especially symbolic to the mind and heart. Watching a letter burn in black circles and blow awayinto the Universe gives you permission to take a deep sigh and say "So be it." It is a ceremony of death,sadness and letting go of stagnation.
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I am not alone I am sure in that I am a Grandma Psychic Reader. As the parents go to work I baby sit, take two small Grandchildren on bus trips to town, and walk in the park. At their home I watch puppet shows and the daily Halloween costume skits of my Grandchildren in the month of July. But off and on hours, as I visit, I am also taking psychic phone readings.
I have the good fortune to have understanding family. Perhaps the fact that Gransdma has always been one who did the unexpected, makes her back room internet phone readings no problem. Of course Grandma is a Psychic Reader! Aren't they all? And of course Grandma time to time sets up summer fair tents in interesting deco of lace, beads, as she sits in Renasaunce attire. Don't they all? I am blessed for this understanding view point from family.
In case you are in the Eugene, Oregon area on July 26th, I will be reading from a Table and Chairs at the famous Saturday Market as "The Prairie Crone" on:
- Romance
- Career
- Spiritual Unrest
- Photograph Channelings
- Palmistry Analasis
Otherwise, please call when you see me online. I wish you well. And if you are a Grandma, we make the world rock! Being a Psychic Grandma will give your grandchildren wonderful interesting stories to tell in the future.
Every day I walk my 15 yr old Wolf dog. It takes us about 1 hour to cover the distance he walked in 10 minutes in his prime. We manage a spiritual mile a day at slow motion. Like an old medicine man he searches for wild Buffalo Grass. With one good eye he analyzes the near sighted horizon. When a blade of coarse high grass waves in the air he leads the way. I guess it must be an Herbal stomach relaxer.
I am a fast walker with long strides and this slow procedure used to drive me crazy. There was a day when Chinook and I walked the forest trails together at a fast clip. No more. I am more patient now as I realize he may not be with me long. I increasingly am aware Chinook is more Soul Mate then any man I have had. I will care for him with intense watchfulness during his last days. When autumn comes I will remember the Indian Philosophy “it is a good day to die.”
What is a good day for an old dog to die?
A good day to die is when the wind blows through your hair, you are at peace with the world, acceptant of your place in the Universe and a song is in your head. Chinook is a 100 lb White wolf / Husky cross. In the last 15 years he’s seen all my life chapters, analyzed my every move and protected me. I love him more then my self.
For that reason, before the cold winds blow and ice laces the walks, I will not allow Chinook to die screaming with a broken hip. I will not allow the Cancer in his ears to grow so bad his quality of life is gone. I will prepare his Crossing Over for a Beautiful Day.
How am I preparing for his Crossing in autumn?
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I am recording a cassette of all the songs I whistle and sing to him during our walks. I will play this on the time of his crossing over. I know it will comfort him when I am crying as he lies in my arms.
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I will give him a last mile walk to search for Buffalo Grass under blue autumn skies and a crisp breeze.
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I will give him a convertible ride in the back seat on a blanket, while he is still able to sit up without screaming in pain.
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Chinook will be ready for his Old Man nap from his good day.
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I will be escorted into a lovely quiet room at the Vet.
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This is when I will play the cassette I have recorded of our walk songs;
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I will allow the Vet to give Chinook a tranquilizer to relax him even deeper.
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As the last shot is given to Chinook he will rest in my arms.
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I will be with him as my Golden Retriever’s Spirit, Jazz, bounds up to Chinook and they run off together where dogs become Wolves again.
This I know. To me, it is not love to make a Soul Mate Pet die in Agony. I will take advantage of the fact that in America Pets are allowed to die with dignity, but humans are not.
In the mean time, I will take slow bonding walks in search of Buffalo Grass with Chinook, my 15 yr old Soul Mate wolf dog.
This is an old newspaper clipping of Chinook, Jazz and I {and my first publisdhed book "Swirls on a Green Plate."} Jazz, Chinooks mate, died in early spring, 2008, at age 10. She adored Chinook.
Chinook Dies August 19th, 2008 {the ending of my story}
I woke up and knew it was time to put Chinook down. He developed a tumor on his hind quarters that caused him to drag his leg. The cancer had spread from his ear, to his eye and now his hind end. I promised myself I would not allow my soul mate dog to be in unbearable pain. For the first time ever he wouldn't eat his breakfast. I sat on the couch in my pajamas as he lay at my feet whimpering softly and continuously. He has never been this bad. With one good eye he pleaded for me to make his pain go away. I cried and woke my husband up. I knew for sure it was time to help Chinook cross.
Kevin and I gently lifted Chinook into the back seat of the convertible. We took him to the favorite Prairie park where he and Jazz loved to swim and run. Magicly all his strength came back. He seemed cured, his tail wagged, and seemed more alive then I had seen him in months. "He sees Jazz. She's here for him." my Red Neck hubby commented. Jazz, who died in the Spring, was a Golden Retriever. Chinook trotted fast on the trails, over the bridge, around the Bog and collapsed in the Joint Grass in bliss. The 10:30 AM Bull frogs sang ... I wish he would have passed on there. But he didn't. Had I read Chinooks agony cries wrong? I was both happy for him and in torment.
Thats when I found a fresh snake skin on the ground. The Native Americans believe animals leave messages.....and from feathers, skins, fur are constant signs. I remembered a molted snake skin means "metamorphasis"... a new path awaits. I told Kevin it was our message. I felt sure it was ok to let Chanook go to Jazz. She was already by his side. By the time we got to the bridge leading to the car, Chinook's leg began to drag. I knew once home his agony would begin again. It was time to shed his body in dignity like a warrior.
We walked into the Vets office and Chanook looked beautiful. When I told the nurse what we had made an appointment for she looked at us like "HIM......YOU GOT TO BE CRAZY." I was devestated by Chanooks sudden recovery. I kept thinking {of all people} ELVIS PRESLEY. "Die Young and leave a good looking corpse" {Who would have thought Elvis Presley would come to me in Chanooks last hour! I'm not even a fan.}
We asked the Dr. to give us a blanket for the floor. I sat beside Chinook, his head in my lap. I whisteled, sobbing silently, with sunglasses on. He always read my eyes and knew me like a book. I did not want him to read my eyes now. I sang softly and whisteled over and over his favorite walking songs. I whisteled joy songs as they put the relaxer in him. I whisteled softly 8 minutes, Kevin wiping the snot from my nose as I sobbed uncontrollably and whistled over Chinooks big wolf head. Finally he let out a huge sigh. I whisteled through my breath while the Doc put the final shot in his leg. And then, in seconds, he was gone. Even in death he was so beautiful. "No more pain and misery my Chinook." "Have a good run with Jazz." my hubby sobbed.
Kevin and I went home and I shoveled 2 graves at the base of the wolf tree sculpture. When Chanook's ashes get back, we will mix the remaining of Jazz's ashes with his and spread them at their favorite trees. The house feels so empty.
This is Chinook and Jazz's Pet monument, where their ashes are buried, The sculpture is 10 foot high and was carved by an area chain saw artist. The massive tree's roots were choking off our neighbor’s sewer system and had to be cut down. Now the Maple tree, Jazz and Chinook are all together as one, in this 10 ft. high carving in sight of my kitchen window.
Something about the end of July has many feeling blue. It seems one morning we wake up and realize the plans we made for summer did not come through as we hoped. Worse, they came and went so quickly there is a feeling of “is this all?” July’s suffocating heat has us running inside to the air conditioning. The thrill of boating, hiking, camping and gardening seem to pass. A sinking feeling sets in.
SUMMER EXPECTATIONS ARE LIKE CHILDHOOD CHRISTMAS MORNING DREAMS WRAPPED WITH LIGHTS AND TINSEL.
The “Endless Summer” for adults, replaces the excitement of Christmas morning we had as kids. Summer is a magic we know for sure is real. No one can tell us it does not exist. But just like children we often set our expectations too high for summer. We imagine all the fun things the sun will bring us. By July, if our dream has not happened, a sinking feeling sets in. Like kids, it’s as if Santa did not bring us the toy we dreamed about.
Those who bought a new car for maximum freedom are cut short by gas prices on top of monthly payments. Maybe the “new image” of weight loss did not bring a soul mate or more friends like the TV commercials promised.
AUTUMN GLORY BRINGS AN EXCITEMENT IN THE AIR AGAIN!
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Whether you live on a tropical island, the desert or where the trees explode into brilliant colors, there is an EMOTIONAL CYCLE that comes with autumn.
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It is as if the Autumn gives us license to reset our dreams.
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As the trees drop their leaves, we shed off our disappointments. Its time for refueling a fresh new year of hope and dreams.
SO HERE’S THE DEAL. Its time to make a plan NOW.
No one needs to wait for a season to bring happiness. If happiness isn’t happening in the NOW……why would it happen with a temperature change? Take charge. Access your inner warrior. Don’t count on “specific circumstances” to be the vehicle to get happy. By letting your dreams come to you, you risk “Christmas Morning disillusion.” Take charge. Be a dream maker Right Now.
HOW? HERE ARE SOME PLANS FOR THE NOW THAT CAN LAST ALL YEAR.
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A yoga class for flexibility and inner peace can give you exquisite gracefulness.
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A new pet can replace disappointing expectations for love all year.
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A Coffee House hang out with free wireless internet can bring friends all year. {Many coffee houses have the same energy as a “Cheers Pub” when you give your business weekly.} You will soon have consistent conversation friends.
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If your a Musician and can’t find a band, Advertise in an area art newspaper.
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A Bonsai tree or Master Gardener course can satisfy gardeners during cold months.
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Join Weight Watchers for cheers and praise for every pound you lose all year.
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Join a swim team or swim aerobics for a water obsession top satisfy all year.
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Learn how to fly a plane. Become a master of the sky.
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Are negative childhood voices making you over sensitive? Don’t lose another friend. Get counseling NOW.
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Wish you could work on your own car? Take a beginner’s mechanics course and never ever risk your life to a flat tire.
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Sick of your limited computer skills? Research and become a dream computer whiz. Do it now!
THE POINT IS TO PERSUE GOALS RIGHT NOW. DON'T BE DISSAPOINTED THE SUMMER DID NOT BRING YOUR DREAMS.
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Remember! Do a web and Google search for your unfulfilled summer dream! RIGHT NOW! If you have kids, teach them to access their inner warrior early by chasing their dreams with knowledge and action.
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Type in the area you live, and a 30 mile radius around you.
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Check out all the possibilities for your interest.
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Make your Christmas list of expectations based on the NOW.
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Try not to self sabotage your happiness by counting on a season to bring your dreams.
It starts with you! Right here! Right now! You can be all you want to be. Don't count on a season to bring your dreams to you. Access the present. Kick in your inner warrior.
He was tall and lanky, wood beads wrapped around his wrist. Don was a P.H.D. that died one day. From the other side of the veil Arms reached out to him. Called back, he was ripped through the veil to return to life with the gift of Spirit Communication....and two foreign languages. His beloved English language was gone. Relatives rushed an interpreter to his bedside. It was decided he was speaking German. Who was he now? What was he now? What message did he have from the other side? Tomorrow Brass Ovary will interview this amazing man!
Just click on the white button and listen to Don' interview on our Psychic Show, The Braass Ovary. Lap Top owners may need head phones for best sound.
Our Story - Meeting the Man from a distant Journey Beyond
A young woman was schedualed to have a Palm Reading on her young son. She pulled up in a van with a distinguished man beside her.
I walked behind them to my studio door and observed his free loping gate. As he entered my door a relaxed sigh burst from him. “Ohhhhhhh….your home….most peaceful.”
I wondered how long he had been in America. He seemed at a loss for words, as if he was grasping for sentences from mid air. I waited patiently for his words to form, wondering what the connection was between this young attractive woman and older artistic man from a long journey. She gave no explanation.
OUR READING BEGAN WITH A BABY PALM READING
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Our appointment had been for a Palm Reading on her childs tiny hand. She was interested in knowing what gifts and character qualities stood out. All hand characteristics are based on rules over 2,500 years old. The child's hand showed artistic qualities, an open nature that would grow be a nurturer. He would be an adventurer with an independent nature; some one people could depend on as long as he was allowed time alone. A natural thinker, it was important the mother realize this child should be given much time with paper and paints, blocks and creative stimulation. Most of all the mother needed to give the child his natural need to be alone, with out worrying about him becoming anti social.
“WILL YOU READ MY FATHER?” she then asked.
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Ahhhh…….now I understood the connection. I brought out my Tarot deck, my tool for Channeling to the voice within. On beginning his reading I asked him to say his name 3 times. “Metamorphosis” came up. A warning was heard. The Tarot went into detail. He was living inside a dream, and in these living dreams, he was evolving. He was as vulnerable as a child. I thought of a cocoon with a sleeping caterpillar inside it.
His reading cautioned him to be less gullible and surround himself with more boundaries. Something about this man’s intellectual creative side would attract those with money. In dealing with con men attracted to his creative polish, he must realize his vulnerable honesty was an easy target for profitable "dream snatchers." They would try to make a profit for them selves, and then abandon him. It was important for him to be cautious. I could not shake off the feeling, also, that this man was surrounded by many faces, ...all in a journey of dreams like him. They were with him, listening...absorbing.....counting on him.
“Would you like to know my Story?” he asked in a German Accent.
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“Yes! Please.” I was fascinated with this mans raw vulnerable side, as if an Alien visiting a new planet, everything seemed new and intriguing to him.
He continued.
“I had a stroke. When I came back my words… and language... were gone.
My mental slate… was wiped…..clean.
I came back speaking in German and Lakota…..No memory… of English”
“Spirits came to me… as I recovered,…they begged for help.
I t was …overwhelming.
On the other side, …..I saw best friends who died. “Go Back” …they said.
I came back… hearing my family call for me.
The other side….so beautiful…..all was one.
Love and beautiful light…….every where.
I felt my self go back…and with me….two worlds came.
I will never be the same person.
I spoke in German …..and Lakota.
No one …..understood me.
My family searched for ….an interpreter.
I was speaking ...the language of my ancestors.
In my hospital bed ...I was surrounded by lost souls
…who asked for my help. I ...was overwhelmed
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AND THE GRANDSON?
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Before they left we held the hands of the baby boy and his Grand Father, side by side. The lines and shape of their hands were almost identical. His Grandfather laughed. He told me that in one room he relearns English for hours each day, counseling lost spirits.
In the next room the little boy plays, talking seriously in his own language, speaking and waving his hands to entities no one can see but him.
LISTEN TO OUR NEXT RADIO SHOW FOR OUR INTERVIEW WITH DON AND HIS INCREDIBLE SPIRIT JOURNEY
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You meet, feel the instant chemistry and gaze into each others eyes with desire. The need to be in a closer encounter is achingly powerful. Timing and intension are everything. When we give someone something fascinating to think about….to work for….to be intrigued by, we see them back. What if we don’t? They weren’t worth it. Here are some scenarios I hear about sex too soon and why waiting can be a more powerful aphrodisiac then a steel bucket of oysters.
THE WORK ROMANCE
You see each other daily. You look forward to the moments absolutely shivering with anticipation and excitement. Every day preperation before work is like choosing an outfit to go clubbing. You are careful to hide your desire from Co Workers. They can so easily sabotage your dreams with gossip.
And then one day it happens. He asks if you want dinner or a few drinks after work. Now you are locked with your feelings together in a private encounter. You make love in abandon, maybe in a hotel or his car. Here's what else can follow :
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The after glow between you both shimmers at work. The Co Worker kidding starts. Now you are playing with potential dynamite.
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If he retells to fascinated "friends" the tale of your instant passion behind closed car doors ... "your ravenous desire"..... you are a joke.
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Suddenly you realize you will pay a nasty price for not truely knowing the person you made love with on a first time out.
What would have happened if you had gone slow? Probably silence at work. More so, that special person will go crazy thinking about getting back to you. “Friends” are more inclined to keep secreats. It takes time to build a friendship. Sorry.....work flirtations don't count as friends. Timing is EVERYTHING and going too fast sabotages.
THE FIRST TIME OUT WITH A COMPUTER DATE
You have been messaging or calling each other with all the details of your life and interests. And then the actual meeting happens. What happens when he walks in the room and you are memorized? What happens if she is everything you ever dreamed of and more?
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What will you give him to intrigue him back once the encounter is over?
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After sex, many men experience the “Oh my God we got this far .... how fast are we going? I`m scared out of my mind!” Unfortunatly this is a common feeling when things go too fast.
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The intrigue of NOT having sex right away pulls the other back like a magnet, to see and experience more - more- more!
Not having sex right away can be a bigger aphrodisiac then having it. It haunts the dreams and daily fantasies just to imagine what someone COULD be like in bed.
THE PLAYER
OK We all know this one, right? But he’s not always the obvious stereo type. He can be a sweet man that starts the conversation with words like “marriage” “children” and all the things your heart believes are words a player would be too insensitive to use. Your heart soars. You make love with absolute trust that you have found your twin flame. The experience of first date passion is almost religious. You feel as if you are lying on a marriage bed of white Lilies and rose petals.
And then, after a pre – wed pretend matrimony night, he has had his fix. He is a narcissist. The golden rule with men who say exactly what you need most to hear the first date is, “Too Good to be True.” If he really is who he claims, make him wait for sex. Don’t make love the first or second time you are together either. He may actually fall in love with YOU in the process, instead of just him self!
ONCE THE SEX HAPPENS THE OWNERSHIP DINAMICS START.
It seems sweet longing is the most beautiful part of romance novels and movies. It’s the relationship rules that complicate things. So why not take your time with physical passion? Build the suspense, give a reason to want more, and show you are intensely valuable and at no ones beckon call. Going slow says “I’m damn worth coming back for. Wait and see.”………..They will.
Ann Marie has 37 years Client Reading Experience
Don’t be afraid to come to me if your longing for another makes you a fool. I have heard every scenario and can help out with your relationship or possible up and coming one.
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Next Wednesday's show interview will be with a P.H.D. that died from a stroke and returned to life speaking the 2 foreign languages of spirits he encountered on the other side of the veil. "Don" will be our guest and tells of his journey, his new retreat in the woods for recovering stroke victims with messages from the other side. As always Adrienne and Annie will give free psychic readings the second half of the show.
Enjoy a fun show of hypnotherapy meditation for developing Intuition, Medical Readings, Naked Bicycle riders, Letting go of the dying, Political medicine choices and Spiritual Gardening. Our show ended with a meditation on Angel wings growing from golden points on our Spinal Colomn. Laughing Womyn Ashonosheni joins professional intuitives Adrienne Austin and Anne Marie {SisterOthelia}.
Just click on the Radio button to listen to this mornings show! Join us with your radio broadcasted questions and recieve a reading by 3 readers. Our show starts at 10:30 AM Eastern, 9:30 AM Central.
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Ann Marie and Adrienne will take your in-depth readings after the show happily.