Featured Article: Is He Losing Interest?
You meet a guy and the phone conversation go well. You begin to talk day after day, night after night then "poof" two weeks go by and the conversations die down, he makes excuses about seeing you again, and you wonder, has this guy lost interest in me? Here's some few signs to tell if he has lost interest in you.
- When you hear the words "we make good friends, are better as friends, or Let's just be friends" then this guy is losing interest in you.
- " I'm just not ready for a relationship" also means " I just don't want to get into a relationship WITH YOU".
I know I will hear many say "but he is going through a tough time at work, home or going through a divorce or bad breakup or major loss in his life". When a man opens the door to dating he is either doing one of two things. He either wants the freedom to have fun, be intimate and date whom he pleases or he is looking for a serious relationship. There's no in between.
- The phone calls only come once every two weeks, seldom or none at all, he's losing or has lost interest in you.
- " Let me call you back" but you don't hear from him...ever... or he takes over 7-10 days to call back.
- Your conversation or communication only stays online or in emails
- He says he's just too busy with work, family, the home, etc.
Now this one can be a little challenging. You may say to yourself "but he always lets me know that he is busy at work but he still talks to me". Ask yourself, does he make suggestions to get together? Plan a night out? call you later on to talk and catch up? Think about what your phone conversations are about and does he make it up to you. I always say if he tries and puts effort then that's all that matters.
- He would rather spend more time with friends, family at home or with the dog then to spend time with you.
- He hangs out online, doesn't message you and even ignores your messages when you instant message him..
- " I need some time to myself, I need some distance" he's not interested in you anymore.
- Your known or seen as the "sex buddy".
I'm never known anyone to have this type of relationship that has turned itself into a serious relationship. I know there is a big controversy about this type of relationship just be aware if you make things easy for him, you will not accomplish the goal of having a serious relationship with your friend. No sex or begin to state your wants and needs with him, let him know " I will not be your sex buddy" and if he does not talk to you about were this type of relationship is heading...then you have your answer.
- " I like you but I want to take it slow"
If you have seen "Sex and the City" then you know that a guy who uses the concept of "let's take it slow" means he's leaving the door open for others.