con artist people abuse,conflict,blame game.
YOU are going to really love this !!
Lets show you some examples:
How assuming,being evasive,and not
completing conversations,allows the
wicked mind,the angry inner heart or hurt people
to use it as a excuse to harm your spirit.
# 1 PERSON-good guy
You are being good,communicating,and being open& friendly
and respectful,you return calls,and are straight forward abour plans.
you decide to make a meeting,then cancel,you both agree.
# 2 Person- Bad guy
This person,24 hours later..
they.,forgets to call,loses info,misunderstands,and assumes
therefor not checking in,goes on a goose chase looking
for the meeting,however they DON'T CONTACT YOU. they
show up announced.
3. SHOWDOWN- You get a text,or call,and apon completiong
1 week later !!!# bad person lays a huge angry scene on your
"being a as*** hole for not being at a meeting,and your a flake
4. You try to talk,text but are shut down without any
consideration,and turned on with hostile tones.
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THIS QUALIFY'S for one reason.
There are factors beyong your control to make correct.
1. The # 2 did not communicate,or respect your last
conversation,and did not further clear or double check
details,or text or anything.
2. Further they did not Once THEY made a error
call,text within 24/48 hours to fix the situation with
respect,and dignity.
3. They waited and created a horrible angry scene
for 1 week !! grudges?? for what?? are you kidding?
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Reading people's personality
SIGNS- bE sure to LISTEN..I always tell people,you can
learn a lot if you HEAR..and don't blank out little comments
IE: people who TEASE you,but its not funny. Sexist comments
rudeness...being overly controlling,dominating in conversations
blaming others ( wife,husband,ect) for being psycho..* RED FLAG! Refuse to discuss there past ( ** RED FLAG)
Making little crude,or off putting comments,or calling you
insecure,poking at your traits,making comments "your fake
boobs,or saying how you"can't dance,or your tennis game sucks, competing in unfair ways,are all put downs designed for power trips pushing you into affair,or bad behaiviour then laughing you got caught! BAD..watch for subtle signs..or power tripping..=================================================
HOW NOT TO GET HOOKED INTO ABUSE.
Back to my my meeting case,and the angry message from
the person # 2
Your gut reaction will be 1. guilt,sadness,pain,anger,or
shock.
You may answer the situation,but I doubt you can fix it.
heres why:
...you might get a hang up,a f** you,or a text thats nasty..this person is not INTERESTED in peace!!
Don't send them nasty replies...bow out with grace.
In fact..I guarantee...if a apology comes..its ANOTHER
red flag!!!! The whole things is irrational,and its not
a good start to building any relations.
Bow out with kind words.."thank you,best to you"
or It was nice,I believe its best we just move on"
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REFUSE TO ALLOW PEOPLE ACCESS.
Even if you must work with them, TAKE THE HIGH
road.....don't ever set yourself up again.
In the case of dating..do I need SAY anything
GET A NEW DATE!!! no # 2 date..thanks .
NO 2nd chances..people do that they do. STOP MAKING
excuses..for others.
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LOVE YOURSELF....BE SURE TO DO SOMETHING TO
COUNTER ACT..THIS HOSTILITY.
In the most dramatic way..I need you to take back your power.
Call someone,watch a comedy,do something nice...
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DO YOU CONFUSE DARKER..........
emotions with being real???..its a huge problem..they think "well this
person much CARE...since they are OVERLY EMOTIONAL
towards me????? THAT IS EGO. Your ego..being fed.
By really listening,and feeling people longer ( esp in romance)
and unfolding there moods,emotions,you can further SEE clearly
how or if they are "stable and appropriate" for your heart.
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Big emotions are just a way. They are not the right or wrong
way to demonstrate how a person feels...unless your really
careful...you will get BURNED by the LOUDEST so called
EMOTIONAL person...* it works both ways....what is nice=mean!! You know the song..rollercoaster..
DON'T RIDE.
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HOW TO READ THERE SOUL
well this is the best means to see a person's kindness
or how they will treat you...but even this can get TRICKY.
Spiritual people without good spiritual manners or morals can use there tricks to seduce or manipulate also.Power is very much
what many of our bad gurus have been hungry for..seek humility.
SIGNS to look FOR
1. People who don't have huge need to control,who don't
cling,who don't blame,who forgive easily,and communicate
with tact,and generosity,who have non-perfect human
feeling,about them.they can laugh at themselves.
2. Look in there eyes...and in there touch. Some people
have a calm,radiant...touch,but there is A DARK sorta
forboding thing about them???? Make sure you use
6 senses. Or otherway..they don't have good touch,but
they have a "watery" eyes that hypnotize...or strong
spirit..( does not mean a GOOD one) do you
feel nervous.?? why?
3. Look for a INNOCENT childlike quality..every person
I meet I find this radiates goodness. I don't mean
child -ish..or being a goof...I mean beautiful..timeless
like a newborn baby,not overly perverse,drunk or pounding
cigarettes ( polluting the body with addictions)
4. False flattery...illusions can mislead you. If someone
is making you uncomfortable..shy...or worse..concerned..
DON'T IGNORE THAT !!! It might be a darkness intuition
not what you deem "magical"might be dark energies not GODly.
5 Study faces of criminals male/female look how
they are....don't ever forget that charm,or how plain-jane they look. Do not get sucked in to the soccer mom,or nice teeth/ suits.
Some of the nicest people I know are poor,from "the hood"
and the most evil are in beverly hills..do not get it confused!
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SOME SERIOUS FACTS ABOUT THESE TIMES
These are very dark times,nevermind the money thing,I am
trying to help humanity souls...
Since we all affect each other,if YOU ALLOW one person
to ruin your mood,or take your emotions,it spills over into
suspicion towards OTHERS!!
Drinking/drugs,and yes I mean dr's over counter,and further
affect people's ability to reason,be logical,and clear minded.
So can DARKNESS inside a person's mind,or heart create
emotional poison..which ALTER'S there reality!!
If you don't heal this,within you..you will attract this
in your world...be aware.
These are very tough times,because people don't look like
they act,and can decieve you in such a way..its heartbreaking.
You must !!! continue to keep a guard up,your heart open
for blessing,and EARS open..to really listen..hard to people
how they treat the mother,father,family,dates in general,dog,kid,work,bus driver.,ex',
is HOW THEY WILL DO YOU.
MAKE PEACE within yourself...create good enviroment
keep generating good vibes...get high on the universe
don't give your power to anyone
WISDOM AND THANKFULNESS- God reveals the
truth,sometimes but we refuse to see ..take charge
of the situation...and bless God for being there to spare you
further conflicts !!!!
blessings, angel~~~ ( call me on 0473)
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