Turning "critical " words into Enhanced love
COMPASSION VS CRITICAL WORDS
OK..you have this happen: over the period of time..you notice..
comments from different sources say the SAME CRITICAL
thing about you. ie: you "over-analyze" ,you drink too much
your always complaining,your work is sloppy,your
manners,your speaking to soft, you curse too much...
slow down driving habits....you don't listen..
your late,,,the boss wants to "red flag" your habits
( which again..happened the last 3 jobs..) same way!!
What you WANT or worse..DEMAND is NICEY SWEET CHERRY
on top...word of praise........but what if thats a LIE.
What if your head...needed a wake up call...and NOBODY
bothered to pay attention to your prospering??
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It is GOLD. oh yeah...it is UP TO YOU...to grab those
"traits" of which you need to IMPROVE to MAKE brick
our of mud...for your foundation of personality.
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OK...I am not speaking about 1 meanie who attacks your
personhood,I am speaking about MULTIPLE repeat from
many sources...perhaps even the last 2 bosses or people
who are close enough to make it meaningful.
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MORE MINDBLOWING.....
you YES YOU.........have done the VERY same critical
word to another....( for there own good) and the
pebble in the pond theory.........starts a ripple effect.
Had I not "banged" heads along the way.......I would never
have TRULY healed,and helped others!!
Am I mother teresa........NO.............nor is SHE ME.
You need to do your PART. Respecting others GROWING.
Provoking LOVE...sometimes..means giving a shot
of thought....thats is yucky tasting.
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PROVING them wrong is draining....
Well? I know,you want to defend your good name!
yesss...but what.....( gasp!!) if THEY ARE RIGHT.
oop..................oops..........................dee doop................
the WISDOM of taking in,and correcting the obvious
flaw...is the mature,and frankly to your BENEFIT..and a blessing
ie: you may get the promotion,the finances,the man/woman,
ect....the love,the dreams.....
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HOW DO WE LOVE OURSELVES??
well, thats LONGGGGGGGGGG SUBJECT.....but I will
for this blog,say it starts by self-mastery,and education and
disapline compassion,and do you see a pattern here??? remind
you of being a growing CHILD??
So, if you refuse to learn,you um failed? right?
or worse,you became weak,and a victim of
the "world" and every competive person
or worse...the slimy ones who get you scammed.
You see? Learning from the hard school of knocks
gets you up the latter.
hmm thats something. SO,you feel you are not
going to dig deep and truly honor the critical remarks
that would develop your power-plan to success,and personal
growth? well thats your choice.......( smile) but I would
consider.............just try...........to take one,and let it
sink in,and work on YOU
For being right,does not in this case....win the prize..being
a self-master in your growing personality,and
in the UNIVERSITY of life.....is the key to
a ongoing redemption to your soul,and its mission
to SELF LOVE,and GIVE BACK.
love yourself
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