TOXIC PEOPLE..HOW TO RID..................
HOW 2 clean YOUR circle....
Toxic people are just like you and I ...people.
So its identifying the current needs of your heart
and soul...and making a pathway for good like minded
people. Its not forever.but its SERIOUS.
Don't just use this as a method to Puffing your ego..and
being "right".
Going back into the bibical times,and readings..I recall
learning about "not to engage with people who sin"...and all kinds of warnings..about associations
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GROUPS,COMMUNITIES,PEOPLE
1. Have you collected people online,OR associates that
are the following:
a. Not participating,returning your needs, supporting healthy habits
b. Dumping problems,using you,mini white lies,playing games
c. Don't include you,but later remind you "you missed a event"
d. call/email only about THEIR pain..woes..but seem to vanish
when you need any support,emotional financial..or help?
e. Don't truly listen,or trust your opinions,beliefs,and counter
act,by incouraging negative - gossip,actions,peoples
f> YOU keep "forgiving" letting things pass,they don't.
g. Have a "sense" they hold you accountable for there
unhappiness....or feel somehow they are jealous of your
success.
H. don't seem to engage in communicating as a friend,but
ad you to "forward" for BCC group emails,and don't respond
to your PERSONAL friend dialog?
I. flirting but not faithful to the relation,date,or intentions
J. Ignore you for months...then OVERLY dramatic periods
drool over you emotionally.....insincere,illusions,foolishness
and have you roller coaster..in pain.
k Emotional Unstable - their personal PUNCHING bag!!
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THE POWER TO RELEASE
Taking on people's (abuse) if your simply not (seriously)
dishing it....is TERRIBLY unfair to your spiritual growth!!
I want to make it clear..EVEN IF it costs you...if its a
roomate,lover,working partner hobbie friends,
group outings,sporting buddies,,its ALREADY costing
you by WEIGHING your GOOD karma down!!
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How GOD/Universe GIVES us blessings,is ABOUT
how we MIRROR that back into OUR relationships!!
If you feel abused...( NOT VICTIMIZED) chances are
your going to HAVE DAMAGE to your self-worth.
wHATS THE PRICE? ohhhhhhhh boyyyyyyyyy
When we self-abuse by enabling...we are basically
sabatuaging our karma into DARKNESS..we are
creating more bad karma for OUR lives!!!
Heres how it looks : You- Yes universe I think I am crap
AND they all treat me like crap too!
universe- ok I will mirror your thoughts back now!!
SHAZZAM......you- SEE SEE !! TOLD YOU ....
Universe= Yes you did. I just told ya back. I follow you.
Now do you want to show me a different mirror????
Thats it.simple.. and you blew it!! but wait...............
now is the time to change that.....RIGHT THIS INSTANT
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Your loyalty to your spirit-soul-God..MUST be a PRIORITY!!!
RE-WRITE THAT...above..in the positive.
Oh you dont believe.??.back to the "example"
again..till you "get it" . until your CLEAR.
your projecting a lie..if you pretend to be happy
it won't lie back for you. BE REAL WITH YOU.
Not feeling happy..ask for prettier picture in your
mind,and SEND IT to GOD./universe.Practice!!
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LOVE NOT EGO...........................................
Get the courage to stand up,for your truth ( not ego) but
in a quiet place...go into the heart...notice how it feels?
weak...or fast pulse....unhappy tense? fatigue??
uninspired,disbelief,apathy, sorrow ..rage,knot in stomach,
can;t eat,sleep,think,anxious..walking on eggshells,
Who is the people,or what circles of people seem to
bring you such misery..from all angles? 1 email set you off?
or worse..NO emails ...and your lonely ,hurt,abandoned
withdrawn??? Well lets clear that road...........
Once you made sure,your NOT CAUSING conflicts/fights/
your just ENABLING this, you will notice SHAME..rising up
go deep....really sense the smallness you get from
allowing this toxic energy to take OVER your emotions.
It feels like when you were a kid,spanked? yelled at?
Do you curl up,in fetal position,do you hold your body with
a littleness? Do you puff out your chest in anger like 2 yr old?
THIS IS IMPORTANT..its vital.
OUT of control...?? emotionally just fragile?
pretending its ok..and hanging on to feel important or
popular !! ( teen age feelings) of rage,hostility,rejection
I mean you may really have to dig down....it may
be really a good learning for you to FACE IT.
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LIKELY: You may collect the following types of people.
1. freeloaders....good a guilting you....into it
2. flakey-lazy-uncommited,dull,apathetic,moody
3. unspiritual-bitter-worldly-vanity-boasting,egotistical
4.ungenerous,or worse conditional manipulating givers!
5. betrayers,power hungry...and dangerous to your reputation
6. paranoid - vampire your light hearted spirit
7. repressed, cold, "silent" self-centered 2 the max
8. other people collectors who compete in popularity contest!
9. ex's who enjoy the "predator-prey" game over and over
10. blame gamer's and sliding insults, being un-funny ..
teasing you personally -sex,appeal ,mocking your skills,talents
gifts,or beliefs.-humilating
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REWARDS FOR THE CLEAN UP!!
aha....SO....you decided to make a spring cleaning,remove
some people from a club,list,email,party,office,landlord,
lease....ect ect....ect....
Good. SCARY?? Now I assume..( I do) that You may
cause a HUGE nasty backlash.......but I want to warn you.
DO NOT ENGAGE IN A FIGHT,ARGUEMENT.
drop it. This is human nature..rejection is a base fear
primitive..
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Your choice to release someone should be a very thought out
a long history of repeated offensive behaiviour.
Do not mistake this for "revenge" this is closure without
them helping you close THE DOOR. You do it. end it.
You don't "wait" you may have thoughts but they should
drift in/out...not be "glue" work with a counsellor or
one of keen's best..to keep flushing it outwards....
Everyone has bad times....hard times..and out of control
emotions..and you need not be unclear..make the choice
if they "change" you will know. it would be VERY rare.
I see very FEW people toxic change quickly without
intervention??? ok? be honest.
Choose this soon,and move forward,and develop.
Don't go backwards...its not you. Today you accept your fate.
Today be the LEADER..not the follower...go in haste....Go in peace
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THE DAY AFTER THE TRAUMA
This is a new day...of a certain thing is true...you will
feel LIGHTER..as being SOBER...or lifted from the
beast of FEARS,AND troubles......STArt the pattern
fresh with sending LOVE..to the people YOU HAVE
HERE NOW..in fact DOUBLE UP...the ice cream
on those people. Begin your spiritual growth and TRIPLE
your efforts..with your church,reading,fellowship,prayer,
and metaphysics.Treat yourself like a STAR..I mean
buy yourself FRESH flowers,and dress up,get a tan,or
hairdo,or just celebrate with cheap champayne with a friend!
The point is....Your A true wonderous STAR*****
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PATIENCE...DON'T FRET....KEEP FATE
1. start building a new network of people..slowly,and be
on guard..don't trust everyone when they seem "positive"
or excited?? WAIT. be discerning this time. learn from
the PAST. This means patience....maybe months...
it did not take days....to find good people!!!
FOR SINGLES:************
.................if your recovering from
letting a ex,or FWB,or fling go....be sure you GO IN
new dates with friend-like attitude..meaning DO NOT SLEEP
with this person...for a long long time. DO NOT... You
want love...love takes a certain time line...and lust
is likely to be THE THINGY you feel...hormones
lie. sorry..they do.CHANGE your behaviour first.
you can kiss,hold hands..hug...all ya want.........
Women,pleeze..I know you get those "urges" but
to use this to "be liberated" or worse to security on
the possession of a man's heart...? heart? really?>>
and then we demand RESPECT?? are you serious?
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The heart is ........well you know where its
located....lol
Don't ask for love,then demonstrate LUSt
If you wish spiritual men,ACT WITH SOME SPIRITUAL
MANNERS...LADIES...or stop blaming men!! ( ouch!!)
Now if your happy,then don't bother with the above
and go be a 60's trippy hippy.free loving gal .but be happy*(: don't be played.
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If your feel scared-counteract that by praising yourself
reading something,or praying...right away!!!
A simple 1-2-3 say these words over and over..
ABOUT 10X ON EACH SINGLE WORD.
FAST....close your eyes....hold your hands to your chest.
LOVE LOVE PRAISE APPRECIATION SERVICE
GRATITUDE,HOLINESS....RELEASING...FREEDOM
RESPECT RESPECT CLEAR GOODNESS RIGHTEOUS
HIGHER GROUND...BRING IN PROPEROUS RICHNESS
BELIEF..... HAPPY.....HARMONY....GOOD 2 ME
GOOD 4 ME GOOD FOR YOU FUTURE BRIGHTER
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SERVING GOD/UNIVERSE is A CHOICE....and
it means lining up your OWN values with others
not perfect....but to create MORE....harmony()
Make your circle,or build them,and clean
them,and remove them if NEED BE to
honour your CONTINUED changed personal NEEDS
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PROTECT YOUR SOUL~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!!~!~
iN CONCLUSION:
Don't live with others holding you back....don't accept
"dead weight"with no movement or inspiration further.
CHOOSE to relate to people,and allow them access
with some checkpoints....don't blindly allow strangers
into your circle,AND DON'T keep people out of
FEAR...OF any loss.....you already are LOSING
ground......( re-read this whole page)
Further- PROSPERITY is about giving LOVE & goodness
to you.....so how can you be happy,attract a beautiful life
CLearing THE Clouds...of destiny.
ps:
I am proud of my clients over the yrs.....!!.....very very proud
you all make me like a mama bear....so impressed!
Blessings...come to those who have courage...
to BELIEVE in loving the soul.......
love yourself....Increase your goodness,
be good to you,baby steps,stop tripping over
the past..try new people,try new loving ways
to treat YOU...........***** THE STAR YOU ARE!!!
XOXOXOOXOX
ANGEL*
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