Love is destined,are you in the way????
REAL LOVE WILL PART THE RED SEAS
TRUE LOVE...I MEAN THE STUFF MOVIES ARE WRITTEN
ABOUT....WILL WITH YOUR PERMISSION,AND PATIENCE
FIND YOU WHETHER MARRIED,SINGLE,POOR,PREGNANT,
SICK OR HEALTHY...LITTLE PERSON,OR LARGE SIZED
WITH 3 KIDS, OR BARON,OLD,IN A REMOTE VILLAGE.
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HERES A FABULOUS STORY to bring it into focus!!
Lets say your
battling in your life with lover,or lack of or rough living
partnership with your current .
SCENE 1. You have been talking to your ex,its been lovely
and you feel peace,and you are CURRENTLY INVOLVED with JOE/JILL ,who is NOT a good
person,and your miserable,and mistreated.
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You continue/choose to stay with JOE/JILL cause..well? A million
reasons...and the ex,and you who are DESTINED to be
with you,apon GOD'S plan...you feel might be the thing
that has to be terminated for the sake of sanity.Another yr goes wasted.....wasted.........
One day,it gets bad. JOE/JILL does something SO HORRIBLE
you almost pack and move out,or block all communication for ever!
You CHOOSE speak to the ex..who consol's and comforts you..but your
so mad...you are just hard to deal with...so you stop taking
those calls,emails for a few weeks.months.
AND choose to STAY....another yr goes by......and by............
You have a meltdown...get depressed,and this may take months
as you continue to have horrible times with JOE/JILL..
Then you gain courage...and decide. THATS IT. I am done.
YOU CHOOSE to leave that.
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The first few weeks.++++++++++++++++++++++
You are finally single....and wow....
You are now grieving...lonely..depressed,scared,broke,,,,what have you....perhaps you swear off men/women...even your EX!!
Meanwhile ..your spirit is down...so your not honoring your spiritual
works,or doing tithing,or anything remotely spiritual,even cutting off
friends,the ex,and others while you heal.
You get angry..part of denial..and grief. you start to UNRAVEL...blame GOD..and everything for your misery..even
consider taking JOE/JILL back and being unhappy is better than THIS HELL!
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BECOMING ANEW
You choose to heal,and do the emotional work.
Maybe month..maybe 2 yrs...later..your beginning to be nice to
yourself..healing,and warming up,talking to dates,and friends..feeling normal..and open and spiritual,and grateful.
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You have been doing better,but your REALLY lonely for love.
You figure..what the heck...Maybe I will meet my old ex) for
a meal. Its ok..I am free. and single.
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You choose to meet old ex...they are glowing,you feel laughter,and freedom
and hope. you go home..happier than you have been,.Gee they
look so good! so attractive..and happy......they are not angry
for the time,you were disconnected...in fact they are forgiving!
In the meantime..and into the future you & old ex are bonding
into truth,and spirit of best friendship &trust.
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oVER THE NEXT MONTHS..the ol ex keeps dropping hints
out but you BLow them off......( pay attention @@@)
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However..you have work to do..TIME to find ms/mr right!!!
You choose to ignore ol ex
For the next yr your pining away,looking for love,dating all kinds
of FROGS..frustrated...and feeling no end in site for your life to
ever have partnership!!! ARGGG..you scream into your pillow..
I hate this!!!!! NObody at christmas....nobody to kiss...
You work like a ravaged animal...burrowing away..seeking
emails,text,or profiles of mr/ms right!!!..like a wild animal.....or maybe not.
Maybe you do NOTHING. .....in any case..nothing happens.
just a lot of drama...and some fun times..but nothing important
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Then one day your ex ( old) calls,and asks you for a proper
romantic type date or meet up.? You are intrigued? you giggle?
really?? you want to see me?? wow........it feels good to be wanted.
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You ponder........you wonder? hmm should I???? SHOULD I>??
Your still sorta cranky,having no love,or your "needs" met...so
what the heck???? why not a booty call? I need it!!
So you throw down your "rule book" and dress in your best
outfit,put some nice music,and wine..and lets have a las vegas night@!!
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THIS IS WHERE YOUR FATE TURNED A CORNER.......
DateNight - you choose have a cuddly night,its comforting,you know
each others ways,feelings natural....!! wow..you got your smile back,your back & knees stopped aching,you laughed,maybe even tears..
of joy.......and you feel RELAXED,you feel alive..vibrant..wanted
and whole..not alone!!!! Gee why did I GET this person out in the first place............
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Next day...it dawns on you..how happy you are again..after another
sad pathetic yr of lousy dates.....! hmm you wonder?? for a minute.
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HOW FATE WALKS IN........AND HOW WE RECOGNIZE THE MEANING...
over the next few days..your tossing turning..about your passionate
evening with the ex...........can it be>?
DO I BELIEVE THIS CAN WORK? OR WAS IT A BOOTY CALL?
After a lot of mind-grinding....and analyzing...you say..you know what
I DO love my ex....I really think I made a mistake,and I am ready for
love. YES ,,,my family will be surpised.....so will my kids
maybe Its wrong...maybe I should never look back........Do I trust me?
Do I think I am settling for 2nd best?? What if I fail again??
HERES THE QUESTION? TO YOU
WHAT DO YOU THINK SHE/HE DID????? WHY?? CHALLENGE THIS,EVEN SHOW IT AROUND ,ask your friends,opinions?
WHAT if THEY DID not have ROMANCE??..WHAT IF SHE CHOSE HIM/HER RIGHT AFTER THE BREAK UP...not WAITING 2 YRS TO HEAL HER/HIS HEART, What if HE.SHE removed him/her out of life for ever????
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LOVE BREAKS DOWN STEEL HEARTS
LOVE comes in all forms,all ways,all colors..under all situations
and sometimes if we STAND STILL. we can stop running looking
and acually RECIEVE IT RIGHT WHERE WE ARE !
But clearly here I show " little daily choices,and how turning the corner in FATE
and not minding or paying attention to destiny slows or quickens'
our path to light& love. What happens when we deny our happiness to stay in something? Every choice is so heavy..to think how vital it is!
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MORAL..of the story...
It was there since the beginning.
When the story started,this person chose JOE/JILL
for 3 yrs...they continued progress in a direction.
Maybe bad things create a new place for the healing
to grow..past our problems,in relationships?
Maybe we toss the good one OUT!! and CHOOSE the
hard case to live with for our growth?????
If she/he did not leave joe/jill,and heal could
ol ex & them had any chance of renewing a love ??
......Don't deny whats real..in any form,
it will show up....don't stop believing...slow down,and stop
seeking it like a piece of gold in a river...........in a land
of maybes..and wrong fits............
aRE YOU WILLING ?? Will you step out,of the
bad choice,marriage,relationship and become renewed? DO you trust
your ability to make it alone???
Only thing...is ARE YOU IN THE WAY????
caLL AT THIS EXT:
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angel* THE AUTHOR.....