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Why Be Negative When There Is So Much To Be Positive About

Sitting in my garden  at 8.30am this morning I stopped for a moment and opened my eyes and my ears.

 

My garden is a rainbow of colour from all the flowers that are starting to bloom , the birds are entertaining me with their morning song as they call out to each other.  The smell of coffee and breakfast being prepared from the houses around me teases my taste buds, a soft gentle breeze is blowing and the sun is warming on my skin, the early morning dew glistens on the spiders webs dangling from the trellis.

 

I realised how very lucky we are, Yes you are lucky too even though you prefer not to admit it, even though your eyes and ears are closed to the riches around you, even though you won’t allow yourself to see the abundance in everything you have and everything you do, you are far too busy whining about what you don’t have to appreciate even the simplest of things. 

 

Imagine waking up in the morning wondering if the food truck will arrive today, wondering if you are strong enough to make the long  hike to get the water you so badly need, wondering if you will live to see the end of the day, but being grateful you will get the chance to try.

 

Imagine waking up in the morning to the sound of gun fire and rockets exploding close by, wondering how long you will have electricity for today, wondering if it’s safe to step outside or if you will be hit by a sniper’s bullet, but being grateful you will get the chance to try.

 

Imagine waking up knowing you are facing another day on the local rubbish heap collecting cans to sell for a pittance just so you can feed your grandchildren because their parents have died of aids, all the time worrying about their safety in the streets because you know they may be kidnapped and sold to child traffickers.  Or waking up as a scared 10 year old but having to be brave because your 5 year old sister relies on you to look after her because your parents were killed by bandits, but being grateful you will get the chance to try.

 

If you wake up in the morning worrying about how you are going to manage till your next pay cheque, STOP….be grateful you have a next pay cheque to look forward to.

 

If you wake up in the morning worrying if you have enough gas in your car to get to the supermarket  STOP……be grateful you have a car and a supermarket to go to.

 

If you wake up in the morning angry at everyone else because your life has taken a bit of a  downward trend STOP...... you are free to make changes to your life. 

 

If you wake up in the morning and all you can think about is what you don’t have STOP………one day you might not have what you DO have so start being grateful for the little things before they are gone.

 

Blessings

Published Wednesday, June 11, 2008 10:48 AM by Trinity Connection

Comments

# re: Why Be Negative When There Is So Much To Be Positive About

Many thanks for this reminder and many blessings Trinity.

Rosie
Wednesday, June 11, 2008 4:04 AM by Rosalea

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Excellent post - as I read it, I could picture the lovely view of your garden...only to then be snapped back into reality, which is what I definitely need. I am very guilty, especially right now, of bemoaning what I don't have instead of focusing on what I do have. Thank you for the reminder! Judy
Wednesday, June 11, 2008 6:24 AM by jc2007

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I just got up, finshed my coffee, cleaned up and now I see this.  Trinity, do you have journalism, wait, dumb question, doesn't matter.  Your wording is always that of a great book or article.  I can see your garden, smell the coffee and such you decribe.

This brings to mind that right now I have a kitchen full of food.  I have my little 11 year old cat laying here beside me.  She wants nothing - just to be near..that is a Gift.  What would I do without her?  Going into the negative here but, I mean, it's a Blessing.

I may complain about neighbors but I have a home.  I don't own it but it's lovely.  Because I have made it so.  I have a car outside with gas in it should I need to go out.  Adequate income financially.  Yes, some bills are late coming in.  Can't help it but it gets there.  I try though.

These are wonderful thought to start my day.

Thank you!
Wednesday, June 11, 2008 7:09 AM by Ancestral Wisdom

# re: Why Be Negative When There Is So Much To Be Positive About

Rosie, thank you for your comments.

Judy we are all guilty of thinking of what we don't have sometimes we need a reminder to look at what we do have.

AW, No I don't have training in journalism or anything like it in fact I flunked my major english exams because I write from the heart not the head.  I just had to write this blog today because really and truly even just having a soft warm mattress to sleep on is enough to be grateful for these days, and I fear if we don't learn to smile and appreciate the small things we will loose a lot of what we have.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008 7:17 AM by Trinity Connection

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So so true, Trinity.  I never miss reading your posts whether I comment not but this one really got me.  My senses came alive with your descriptions.  

You are an unusual Soul and very very kind hearted.  Forgiving.  Always looking at both sides of every issue.  Hugs, Barb
Wednesday, June 11, 2008 10:20 AM by Ancestral Wisdom

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AW thank you honey you are such a kind soul, I try my best at all times constantly to improve on the person I am, everyone has room for improvement. Maybe I should write in this style more, I'll see what Spirit gives me. Blessings  
Wednesday, June 11, 2008 10:36 AM by Trinity Connection

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Well, once again my dear friend, you have hit the nail on the head and written so eloquently with this reality check!
You are so correct...instead of moaning and groaning about woulda, shoulda, coulda's, we MUST be grateful for the things that we have worked so very hard to keep. We as a World, need to stop Jonesing and cherish the house we have.  It may not be a mini-mansion, but it's paid for.  Or stop fretting because the neighbor drives a Lexus and we drive a mini-van...it's paid for!  Be thankful for what you have....you may not have it tomorrow.

Loves ya!
Cheryl
Wednesday, June 11, 2008 3:55 PM by Capricorn 1

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What do I think?  Wow, Trinity.  I'm hearing again what I need to know, when I need to know it.

Thank you so much.

Terri
Wednesday, June 11, 2008 9:23 PM by tezza

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Cheryl I know plenty of people who have so much yet have nothing, and those who have nothing but have so much. Thank you for your comments

Terri thank you yep Spirit has a way of putting what we need in front of us just when we need it. Blessings
Wednesday, June 11, 2008 10:15 PM by Trinity Connection

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Being happy within oneself really does begin with looking around at all you have and being truly appreciative.  

I would rather have little and have earned it all than to have much handed to me, unaware of its true value.  

Wonderful, wonderful post.  I think I'll go sit in my garden this afternoon!
Thursday, June 12, 2008 6:21 AM by The Mathematician

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Mathie thanks for dropping by and leaving your comments.  Enjoy your garden.
Thursday, June 12, 2008 9:14 AM by Trinity Connection

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See?  Yes, write from that wonderful soul that you have - screw school.  I love it always inspires me.  Especially when, in my Super Sensitivaty get a caller that makes me want to quit.  Challengeing, mean, aggressive.  Now who could this be?  Who actually cares?  

No, due to you, I will go forward with the wisdome of Trinity that I am fine and those who wish to hurt us may God Bless.  

You are bringing out all that gooy nicy in me back lol I think I'll knock back a Baileys Coffee with a whole lot of whipped cream and a cherry on top.. hugs Barb  and then carry on after about an hour of course....
Thursday, June 12, 2008 9:54 AM by Ancestral Wisdom

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AW don't let anyone take away your "gooy nicy" in you someone somewhere needs you to be that way.
Thursday, June 12, 2008 9:54 PM by Trinity Connection

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This is true, but still stings days later.  But I do have client that need so ..  the 'tester' can just, hopefully, move on.

It just got me to the core.  But, here I am...

Not going anywhere..

Thanks Trinity!
Friday, June 13, 2008 3:20 AM by Ancestral Wisdom
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