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So Who Do I Turn To?

You the Client don’t phone me or e-mail me the Psychic to hear about my problems, obstacles and blocks etc, you phone me to get help with what you are going through.

 

But me the Psychic is human too, living in this world that appears to be getting more and more competitive, more and more selfish, more and more “what’s in it for me”,  more and more noisy, dirty, polluted.

 

So who do I turn to when things are not good for me, take right now for instance, when for no apparent reason my call volume has dropped to almost nothing, who do I turn to when I slide back a little in my recovery from the break down I had 3 years ago, who do I turn to when I can’t find my centre and everything seems to be going in a downward spiral, who do I turn to when I can’t see a day in front of me let alone months in front of me, who do I turn to when I can’t see how I can possibly get the money together to pay my rent and my bills.

 

I turn to myself and look inwards.  I remember what I tell my clients about changing the thinking from negative and panic to positive and peaceful.  I do all the things I tell my client’s to do, play music, watch a film, do something physical, occupy my mind, my body and my soul, I allow myself my emotions I acknowledge that things hurt but I also acknowledge that I cannot allow the hurt to take over all my tomorrows.

 

Doing all these things doesn’t make the problems go away just like crying and shouting and being angry doesn’t make the problems go away, what it does is make me stronger to be able to deal with what is happening.

 

So many times clients say to me “that’s easy for you to say”, well yes it is easy to say, but honestly if you get into the habit of recognising it is your feelings your thoughts that are trying to force you to play “poor me” and you take the first step to stopping the “poor me” from getting bigger, then you will find over a period of time that it’s easy for me to say, but it is easy for you to do also.

 

I want to thank you my clients for reminding me what to do when the going gets tough and also for allowing me and trusting me to help you move forward to a better brighter future, you are a blessing in disguise to me.

 

Blessings.

 

Published Thursday, April 17, 2008 10:33 AM by Trinity Connection

Comments

# re: So Who Do I Turn To?

When I am in despair I always resort to prayer but I am so thankful for my best friend and companion of 30 years also..my husband is my rock of reason.  He always helps me to see the light.

Rosie
Thursday, April 17, 2008 9:12 AM by Rosalea

# re: So Who Do I Turn To?

Had to add one more comment...Trinity I think we all are experiencing a slow down and I know it is going to get a lot better so please have faith in your ability to move ahead.  I know that you are a brave girl and you have the courage of an iron horse.  Know that I am keeping you in my prayers my friend.

Rosie
Thursday, April 17, 2008 9:15 AM by Rosalea

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Thank you Rosie, I guess what I was trying to get across was everyone goes through tough times and hurtful times and it's how you deal with it that gets you through whether you have someone like you who you can lean on, or if you have to stand on your own two feet.  It's hard but it's doable.  Blessings
Thursday, April 17, 2008 10:47 AM by Trinity Connection

# re: So Who Do I Turn To?

I agree that there is a slow down. I don't know whether it's the economy, taxes or whatever.   But what I do know is that alot of people I know in my life are really watching their budget.  

Business is down everywhere.  But, this is not comforting, I know, as we have bills to pay, etc.  Jeez, I have creditors calling all the time right now and I just can't pay yet.  So I cut my cable down to 'antenna only' and cooking more at home, etc.  I can only assume that alot of keen callers are in a pinch too and just not calling.  Because it's not a living expense which is difficult already.

I don't know..
Friday, April 18, 2008 9:03 AM by Ancestral Wisdom

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Thanks Ancestral Wisdom but as I stated this post wasn't about the slow down in calls.  The world economy has taken a bit of a blow I am aware of it and the knock on effect it has on other things, and the markets are in panic mode at the moment, they will come out the other end. It was about how you deal with the low times when you have them.
Friday, April 18, 2008 9:32 AM by Trinity Connection

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I know, Trinity.  I was simply musing.. Probably barely awake.  Right!  It doesn't help us..  What do I do? PANIC
Saturday, April 19, 2008 1:02 AM by Ancestral Wisdom

# re: So Who Do I Turn To?

That was weird, my post just blew away.  Anyway, yes, I am in a bit of a panic right now also.  I mean, I don't want to be a 'bag lady' "not that there's anything wrong with that" Sienfield "

In fact, I have lowered my fee to 'rediculous'. Getting more calls but I would have to be on 7/24 duty to meet the bills.   I'm tired now.  But I have had more calls and then I look - and seems like alot of work for almost nothing.  Although the callers were great!

I didn't mean to imply that you didn't understand and do 'share your pain' Honestly, I don't even know if rent will be here on time.  

So, please don't think I don't 'get it'.  It's frustrating and worrisome.

Always enjoy your posts
Saturday, April 19, 2008 1:08 AM by Ancestral Wisdom

# re: So Who Do I Turn To?

AW don't worry honey, I probably didn't put it clearly. Don't worry take a deep breath find your center, do what you can about what you can and leave the rest to the big guy in the sky he usually has his hand on the pulse.
Saturday, April 19, 2008 1:26 AM by Trinity Connection
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