Play the ‘If I Were’ Game.
We have all at some point in our lives suffered from low self-esteem, usually because of a harrowing experience. It can be hard to get ourselves back when this has happened and it can even leave us questioning who we really are, sometimes no amount of re-assurance or ‘kicks up the backside’ makes any difference.
One tool I have used many times is to play the ‘What if I were’ game. Pick out the good points in a person you admire and incorporate those points into your life.
If your confidence has been knocked in your job, act and dress with the confidence of a business woman or man that you admire. If your personal life has been rocked then take on the persona of someone you admire and see as having a good balanced life.
You will soon find yourself regaining your lost confidence and will be able to fly solo once more.
Blessings.