She was like a Red Sports Car. Once he owned Her, He got Bored.
He was deeply insecure about his manliness. She was like a little red car. Just to be with her beauty made him feel more of a man. He bitched and moaned about her male friends, and to make him feel loved she gave them up. Pleased he married her. Within 2 years he had a cell phone affair with an emotionally unavailable woman..
SHE WAS SO LONELY!
She came to me with high shrill tension in her voice. She said at night she lay beside him, with out a single kiss or intimacy. It had been months since they made love.. In the morning, within 2 years, he had taken to leaving for work with out a kiss or hug. When she said, “I love you” he said in a cold distracted way, “ummmm hmmmm.”
Clearly, here was a man that hated what he loved, and LOVED what he hated. He could not give up until he had her all to himself. Of course he told her it was all her fault he did not want to make love any more, and her fault she was in high stress. He said:
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She thought she was better then him
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She thought she could find someone a lot better then him.
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She thought he was nothing without her.
The sad thing is, he was insecure before he met her. Just having her on his arm, like a man in midlife crisis chooses a red sports car, was his statement to the world he was "cool". Truth was he did not think he was cool and was absolutely shocked that she found him worth her time and effort. Once he owned “the red car” he got bored with her and wanted another model.
MOTHER TOLD HER TO REFLECT NICENESS, WILL GET NICENESS BACK
At wits end she fell trap to his accusations she was seeing other men she was friends with….even women friends. Alluring garments, cooking, even acting unemotional did not change the way he treated her. Her mother was shocked at her once confident daughter’s attitude. “You’re falling apart!” She told her. Being a good Catholic she told her daughter that if she remained nice to her husband, eventually he would be nice back. But client saw that it was not working and in fact, he was ignoring her more!
“ BE A WOMAN WITH BRASS OVARIES!” I TOLD HER.
“Honey, here’s the thing. I have a plan. You can try it or not….all up to you.”
· STEP ONE – Understand without a doubt you have run out of options.
· STEP TWO- Tell him you gave your friends up for him to become PREDICTABE” just like he said he wanted. Now YOUR UTTERLY lonely.
· In a calm voice, tell him if he continues to leave you lonely, you need to get your friends back. Friends are important.
· STEP FOUR – Mean it and Do it. Don’t just make threats.
“WHAT IF IT DRIVES HIM TO ANOTHER WOMAN?” She worried.
“STEP ONE! I told her. You have run out of options. You deserve friends.”
But remember. It starts with you. I am only a guide along your path.
Remember to be a woman of Brass Ovaries is to understand that with or without a man, you must be happy with yourself, stand up for your self, and when being treated unfairly never give more then you are getting back.
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