I've received some emails recently questioning why some advisors, like myself, request that clients wait 24-48 hours before getting a new reading from a different psychic.  I personally do not believe that psychic surfing is healthy.  It does affect the clients' energy and breaks it down.  Also, I say 24-48 hours because I do not want clients dependent on my predictions while going through life and I want those who are serious about trying to make positive changes.  

Here is an article I've written in 2001 that will hopefully shed some more light on the subject. 

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I speak to so many people on a daily basis. Most clients are either dwelling or focused on something strongly whether it's love, money, career, happiness or family. There are people I encounter online who want general readings, just for fun, but of course that's far and few between.

In some of my articles I discuss the ramifications dwelling can have on the final outcomes of your readings. Now I'm going to shed some much needed light on some other issues that play a major role in getting the most honest and clear reading possible from your advisor.

Psychic Surfing
Every time you call a psychic your energy is broken down. The advisor taps into the energy to tune into your life on many different levels; thus leaving holes in your spirit which can cause an imbalance energetically. Even if the psychic, like myself, uses Spirit as a major tool, they are still tapping into various sources to bring messages though. This isn't always an issue if you keep yourself grounded before and after every call you make to a psychic, but the reality is most clients do not even attempt to bother.

No matter how grounded you are, it's never REALLY safe to call psychics back to back. For example, you call one advisor, don't like what he or she has told you then call another 10 minutes later. The next advisor may or may not be tapping into solid energy. They COULD be tapping into the holes that were created from your last reading, therefore getting partial or completely incorrect information. 

Even worse, instead of the new advisor getting mixed messages, the information from your previous reading could bleed into the current one, which means the second psychic is not getting access to the whole picture, only what was given to you in the first reading. This is why I ask that clients do not call me if they've had another reading 24 hours prior to our conversation. I will not be responsible for plugging up the holes, that's your job.

Is it possible for me to get the honest and clear truth even though you may have beeen psychic surfing?  Absolutely, however, it may be more difficult for me to access the information.  I'm more of a "get you through the journey" and "bottom line" advisor anyway, so keep in mind that I may not get every little detail and/or event you want me to.  We are not allowed to know everything that's coming our way because that would defeat the purpose of life.

Stick With The Advisor That Works For You
Back-to-back psychic surfing does nothing but keep you in the state of confusion. You can't possibly expect to get clear and honest readings every single time. The whole point to psychic surfing is to find the one advisor who consistently works for you. It's important to stick with one (or a few if you must) advisor because they get to know your energy and will have the ability to be consistent with predictions. Not only that, but the psychic will be able to provide you with clearer, more detailed information then you would receive by calling 4 or 5 advisors in a row.

If you must have more than one advisor, it's in your best interest to call each one on a different subject entirely. For example, I have a client who calls me for spiritual growth and another for her love life. Both of us provide her with crystal clear readings and all her predictions happen like clockwork. Obviously this woman is a happy camper and she doesn't feel the need to call us but at best, twice a month for "updates".

The Emotional Basket Case
When calling an advisor for psychic advice, make absolute sure that you're fully grounded, in a decent mood and open to the messages that may come through during your reading. Do NOT have an expectation of what you want to hear. If you're in the middle of an emotional breakdown, you've built a major wall around your energy and the psychic will NOT be able to break through.

If you are crying or angry with your situation, DO NOT and I repeat, DO NOT call a psychic. Let the tears, frustration, anxiety and any other damaging emotion out of your system first. There are some things in life one must deal with on their own. If you're in this position, it won't matter what your psychic tells you because you won't hear a damn word. It won't matter how sympathetic they are to your situation, it will never be enough. How would you feel if your psychic was in this position and trying to read for you? It is NOT our duty to make you feel better about the life you've created. You must find validation on your own.

The Secret To Getting Updates
There's no major secret, really, but most do not realize that getting updates all the time can be detrimental to the bottom line. My personal preference is having my clients call for updates as their predictions come to fruition and/or twice a month at the most. I love it when clients call every six weeks or so because enough time has gone by that I can provide new information and make more predictions the client can look forward to.

The best way to ensure predictions have a chance at coming to fruition is to LET THEM GO. Do NOT constantly check your notes and look for them to happen because chances are, you'll miss them completely. Transfer your focus from the subject you were concerned with to a completely different issue. If you're calling about love, focus on career instead. There are always changes we can make in our lives that will bring us more stability and true balance. If you are constantly calling for updates, you're really just dwelling and you know what happens if that continues; nothing good so for the love of all that's happy and holy, don't dwell. 

Getting And Staying Grounded
Grounding yourself isn't just for getting psychic readings. It is imperative in all the aspects of your daily life as well. Grounding allows true balance in your emotional well-being, energy level and keeps the constant flow of information from higher sources coming through.

The following are the primary ways to keep your energy solid at all times.

* Meditation
* Exercise
* Nature based activities
* Creative activities
* Keeping a balanced diet
* Reading & Writing
* Pampering yourself
* Getting out and doing fun stuff
* Hanging around people who make you laugh

Everyone is different. As long as you strive for personal balance and keep your positive doors open, you'll find that all the areas of your life will present a happier and smoother path.


Be Independent, NOT Dependent
My job as a Psychic-Medium is to help empower clients to find the answers within, view life in a positive light and teach them how to utilize their own intuition. Yes we make predictions and that's cool, but I wouldn't be doing my job correctly if I were doing everything in my power to keep you dependent on those predictions. Everyone is blessed with intuition. The only difference between professional advisors and "normal" people is that we utilize our gifts on a daily basis, not just at random.

I've seen psychic obsession get out of hand, like you wouldn't believe. This is NOT HEALTHY. Of course I would like you to call me back, but only after your predictions happen or when you're ready to take the next step and would like some empowering spiritual guidance. Try and look at psychic readings as a form of entertainment. If you're calling a psychic after every little event that seems to go wrong in your life, you've become dependent when you should be dealing with life on your own.

Try to be very careful of who you're calling. If the advisor is encouraging you to call EVERY TIME "something bad happens" or when it's not necessary, then you're not getting the correct advice. If the advisor makes you feel like you can't deal with life WITHOUT calling them, they're just fueling your psychic obsession and playing with your insecurities. If they are NOT empowering you to grow, they certainly are not doing this job for the greater good of humanity.

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Written in 2001

By Mystic Wonder01