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What it means to have differing opinions............. :-)

If I say that I do not agree with the way a person performs their service, that does not mean I think they are wrong and I am right, it means I do not agree with some aspect of the services they offer. Much like when a caller tells me that another reader got a different response for them when asked a question, I cannot, nor would I ever be able to say that the other reader was wrong and I was right, I simply say that I am telling you what I get and they told you what they got, I am not qualified to say whether they were right and me wrong. Nor am I qualified to state whether that or any aspect of their readings makes them a better reader or not than me.

This is no burning at the stake for any reader on or off Keen. This is no bad mouthing, no labeling anyone phony, and me real, the people I read for are the judge of that.  I for one do not choose to participate in the drama on keen, I do not gossip as I keep to myself for the most part, I may express myself on the blogs of another and if anyone chooses to label that drama, so be it, it's their opinion of what I share on their blog, might not be mine.

As for my stance on spells etc?  I am merely stating my experience of what it feels like to have to clean up the mess and embarrassment that a person feels they tell me that the *spell* they performed obviously did not work. All of that or course still leaves you free to buy ANY spell you want to, just buyer beware.

As for calling several readers a day, while it is not my place to say, you KNOW in your heart, gut and or soul, not to mention credit card or pocket book that is not generally speaking a good idea. It can be confusing and expensive, does that mean I have the right tell you not to? Not at all, however, know that as an honest, ethical reader I have concerns about you as a fellow human being, and know that can be damaging, so again buyer beware. IF others want to take genuine caring for the emotional and financial well being of my callers as something negative then that is their opinion, it is not mine. I, as a reader believe that my *job* does not end when I hang up the phone, others may, I do not. I go above and beyond, always have, always will.

So while some might agree with spells and have had favorable experience with them, I, for one have not. Does that mean I think spells are wrong? To honestly answer, I am of the belief that vulnerable people spending money they cannot afford, for something they want so desperately, and for that not to happen is not easy to get past and so it is my personal experience that spells do not work. That belief is obviously not shared by others as is their right, it just feels as if that practice sets us as readers back to the dark ages when psychics were feared as if they could put a hex on you if you vexed them and that is not a place I think I personally want to be....

If I have offended anyone by this or if anyone felt I was in their *business* by my comments then it was not my intention....Simply because I have one opinion that others do not share, does not make me right and them wrong, it means we see things differently, we learn so much from the people who see things differently... that is the platform that IS KEEN, being all up in the business of others and doing our best to light the way for others to see past the lessons that are thrown at them every day :-)

Joan

Published Wednesday, March 05, 2008 5:41 PM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: What it means to have differing opinions............. :-) @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 3:29 PM

There is a difference between having an opinion about an issue and trying to tell another how to run their busniess, if you cannot tell the difference then don't waste your time reading my blogs, you are very far from seeing what was actually written. I am blue in the face saying that there is a difference in judging someone simply because you have a different opinion :-)
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: What it means to have differing opinions............. :-) @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 4:54 PM

Joan,

There are so many people that are looking for to be heard and they will stomp their feet and throw temper tantrums, when it is out of their hands... Loss of control makes people do crazy things :) and those vunerable will follow for a period of time until they see through the veil. You can talk all you want and try to be heard but... when you are on a seperate plane and your vibration is vibrating differently you come to an understanding and accept.
Our world is changing fast right now and has been for the last 6 months, and you will have those and these seperations. You will have those you will be guided to help and those who you cannot for it is out of your hands.
It is like talking 2 different languages and neither one understanding. You speak the language to those that understand, thats all you can do.. People trashing others and bullying others with drama language will no doubt have to face the music man..lol and set up for a domino effect fall. You have to laugh because those that do not understand the consequences by now..of the High importance to keep yourself in check and not allow the ego to get the best of you and control you:)One does not need a choir to get into heaven, you walk through the gate all on your own accordance...
Thanks Joan food for thought..

GIFTED11

# re: What it means to have differing opinions............. :-) @ Wednesday, March 05, 2008 6:25 PM

Projection is a wonderful thing, it prevents us from seeing within ourselves the very thing we accuse others of.
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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