They say...
lifes tribulations make you stronger....
However going through them it does not make you feel as if you will ever be stronger...
The pain that can be inflicted upon a person by a lover, a friend, a husband, or even your own child can make us feel as if we can never not feel the hurt again.....
The loss of a lover, husband, even close relative, child or friend can devastate us beyond repair or it feels like that for a long time..... healing takes time, and must be done at our own pace.... People who have not gone through loss cannot really grasp what it feels like to a sensitive soul. And in their feeble attempts to make us not feel the despair and in order to help us they do and say silly things, they may not mean it to be hurtful, but it can cut to the bone when done or said....
It is not what happens to us that counts in the long term, it is how we choose to react and there is a process that must be achieved...We all achieve and learn to process our pain in our own time...
To each their time....
Joan