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Say what you NEED to say.........

I have always loved music and have different tastes from traditional Irish music and opera, disco, you name it I like some if it.

I love songs that the words touch me, and one lately is from the Movie *The Bucket list* and while I have not seen the movie the words of the Song really touch me. It is one of my greatest faults, I do not express what I NEED to and while that might seem completely unlike me I use passive agressive tendencies when faced with a situation at times. And afterwards I go over and over what I should have said when if I faced it head on said what I needed to say ( regardless of what is said in return, if you say what you NEED to say, without expectations, you are way ahead of the issues the leaving things unsaid may cause for you in the future). You can of course express yourself without anger, without being mean, and simple stating how you feel about the situation...

Say what you need to say
John Mayer...
 
Take all of your wasted honor.
Every little past frustration.
Take all of your so called problems,
Better put 'em in quotations.

Say what you need to say (x8)

Walkin' like a one man army,
Fightin' with the shadows in your head.
Livin' up the same old moment
Knowin' you'd be better off instead

If you could only...Say what you need to say (x8)

Have no fear for givin' in.
Have no fear for giving over.
You better know that in the end
It's better to say too much, than never to say what you need to say again.

Even if your hands are shaking,
And your faith is broken.
Even as the eyes are closin',
Do it with a heart wide open.

(Wide Heart)

Say what you need to say (x7)

Say what you need to, Say what you need to...

Say what you need to say.
 
 
 
I promise myself that I will try hard to say what I need to say the next time I am faced with an issue that is hard for me........
Joan

 

 

 

Published Thursday, April 10, 2008 11:49 AM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: Say what you NEED to say......... @ Thursday, April 10, 2008 1:06 PM

Dear Joan:

I watched that movie and cried buckets!  I loved the music also.  It was so very moving.  I am a tremendous fan of Morgan Freeman and I just watched another of his yesterday and he always delivers.  Thanks for printing the words to this song for it is like a statement of the soul isn't it?

Rosie

Rosalea

# re: Say what you NEED to say......... @ Thursday, April 10, 2008 1:20 PM

I loved those words, they meant something to me personally in situations in my own life from many situations that I have been faced with, where I did NOT say what I needed to say and it came back to haunt me, I will not go through that again, it is my promise to myself :-)
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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