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We have been given a wonderful opportunity to express ourselves in these blogs. Some may not share the opinions we have, and while we might not like that we have NO CONTROL over how others perceive what we write. We normally write a blog to share our opinions about things. New ways to look at situations, new ways to work through issus from your past etc.... Things that give advisors and callers alike a window on the person who has written it. That can bring new callers to us or it can alienate people....

Of course it is hard when others respond negatively, of course we are human and want people to like us, validate us, agree with our opinions and that will not always happen.... Sometimes we can LEARN from that, and yet sometimes we choose NOT to.....

I am grateful that the blogs can and have taught me so much and I thank the people who continue to share with us and who have taught me lots...

joan

Joan

Published Friday, May 09, 2008 9:36 AM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 9:10 AM

Dear Joan:

Well said and very appreciated.  I too agree that the blogs give us a wonderful opportunity to touch other people's lives and to receive their opinions.  I love reading them for it gives me an insight into the person that creates them like you expressed.  Thanks Joan

Rosie

Rosalea

# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 9:57 AM

Dear Joan,

Exactly!!
I received an email from someone overseas about a recent blog. Her email was filled with gratitude and grace for the content of the blog. For it helped her to see within herself, a little direction in a positive way :)
I enjoy reading the blogs of others. It is a connection tool. When one expresses their spirit in words, and it touches another's spirit....that is serving the "greatest good".
These blogs have allowed the formation of a community, like getting to know your neighbors.
I for one really enjoy the feeling of community. I learn something everyday here. Some days...it is about reminding me of what I do not want to be and others it is about ways I can better my way of being.
Thank you for sharing your spirit~
Light & Love
Dr Daragh

Light and Love

# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 10:07 AM

Thank you for your comments rosie and dr daragh :-)
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 11:54 AM

It is soooooo very funny how many people were so against bloggin when the (idea arose)for keen to partake in.

People think that they have a hidden talent that only needs to be shared when (paid for)with money. ENERGY EXCHANGES AND SO THEY THOUGHT :)Exchange of energy with words are so much more fulfilling and sharing gratitude.

Spirit wants us to bring to the table our really cool gifts. What you can do with the wisdom is immeasurable.

Joan Thank you..

GIFTED11

# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 12:15 PM

The funny thing about the ones who objected the strongest were the ones who blogged the most in the beginning. It has proven to be a good exchange of energy with bouts of negativity...and there is a lot we can learn from each other if we keep it postive rather than allow it to become negative in back biting and negative comments directed at other readers... we can benefit from these blogs if they are used the way they were intended..
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 12:19 PM

yeah, I admit I was one of those against blogging ( gulp! ) but hey, that didn't stop me - I think it is a wonderful tool for our clients understanding the processes we go through in making our business work, and those who blog often, and those who express, are much appreciated, no matter the content of expression...Thanks Joan :)

Carmen miro

# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 12:40 PM

I have learned much from reading the blogs. And I am grateful for having the ability to write about my own personal opinion and share with others... I hope that others like what I have to share and have learned from it....
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 3:17 PM

We create our reality and what you (think) will be what appears in your own world.

I do not always operate from logic (mind) and sometimes, it is very hard to follow when someone else does. We all operate differently, even though we are all cut from the same mold.

That is why certain blogs are for certain people. That is what makes the (idea) of bloggin very unique. It creates a very personal vortex for each person. I would (call) a certain advisor based on what I am able to (pick-up) in their own personal blogs.

You will be able to (understand) who they are and what their belief system corrolates around.
You can also see what is of interest to them and what they practice and follow. You can also witness how an (advisor) is growing and expanding themself. Which ripple effects another when open. That is why writing is an important part of growing, it allows for someone to release and allow expansion to unfold even deeper. If you are doing that with heart intention.
Again, Joan Thank you,

GIFTED11

# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 3:43 PM

I can only speak for my own intention. I know what I went through and possibly put others through in my quest for answers. The betrayal I felt when some came back at me was painful but I learned  from it and I choose to try to help others not go through the same if they can avoid it.
Blogging helps me release past hurts and move beyond them and its a constant cleansing. Knowing that others have gone through what you did makes you feel so much better and its always a learning and growing process.
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 5:48 PM

I am truly grateful for the blogs. I always check in on them and they give me a great start to my day. No matter what anyone says, it's always food for thought. Even something I disagree with gives me something to mull over.
:))
Faith

Faith New Zealand

# re: Blogs @ Friday, May 09, 2008 7:38 PM

Food for thought is always a good way to start your day... I have done plenty of mulling and will continue to do so..
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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