When someone is feeling something, many neural pathways are being utilized
at once, which can create a thought synesthia effect with many different feelings on many levels being felt at the same moment.

When a person perceives a situation, often they are thinking and feeling many things.

 If you are on your way to work, you may feel tired from the night before
and the lack of sleep …you may also be anxious about your presentation that day…then
you notice a homeless person on the street as you are running…the aroma of coffee
makes you think of getting one…and this one energising moment is actually a cornucopia of different feelings and thoughts.

 So when I tune into someone’s energy, I may be getting that they are anxious and sad…thinking of their children as well as their work….and may also be happy in  noticing the sunny weather.

 When I tune into a person, the feeling I resonate with most is the one I will talk about
first. If I identify with that feeling, because I have felt it, I will recognize it first.

That is my perception of their feelings.

 This is very true about relationships as well…my experience makes me perceive what
I want to.

 
So if you feel something from your spouse and partner, check yourself and think about
the thought you pick up…you may indeed be picking up a feeling from your partner,
but watch out,  you may also be amplifying it!

Copyright 2007 Carmen Miro