Changing Outcomes: Nothing is carved in Stone
This blog is for those clients who use psychic readings mostly to learn the final outcome of a situation (predictions or fortune telling). Most adivisors I know, myself included, are not nor do we claim to be fortune tellers. I am a strong believer that anyone seeking 'psychic' advise should focus more on possibilities, clarity, and guidance in order to better understand themselves and/or the situation. By understanding what is happening in the now or what has lead up to the current situation, a person can make personal choices that can change an undesired outcome, gain insight and clarity, and develop needed patience, compassion, or understanding.
Nevertheless, many clients seek out psychic readings because they want to know the final outcome for their situation or ‘what lies ahead’. However, very little in life is carved in stone and final outcomes can be changed due to attitudes, actions, and outside influences. More often than not, the need to meddle or hold tight to the energy of a situation creates more blocks, challenges, and delays in the final outcome. If the final outcome involves another person, taking into account the free will aspect, they can delay or even change a final outcome. The universe will lay a path to follow; however, it is up to each person to make the final choice. For example, if a couple has separated due to commitment issues or fears and your readings indicate a reunion in the future. That final outcome is base on the current energies and possibilities—I will always ask the question ‘what is most likely going to happen’. Depending on the actions and attitudes of both parties, things may be delayed or changed completely.
Please understand that this is not an excuse given to clients when final outcomes change or delays occur. The point I am trying to make is that sometimes a small action or behavior can cause a ripple effect in a situation, create delays, or even change the final outcome. My advice to clients is to focus more on what is the best course of action at this time and what they need to know concerning the situation.
On the other hand, there are times when regardless what you do to change the outcome it will remain the same or with a slight variation.
Personal example: A few months ago during a session with my trusted advisor/mentor she was focusing on business/career issues when upcoming issues with the internet or my business website was revealed to her. As she continued to read on this she insisted that I was going to have some problem with the internet or website creating a major obstacle for my client’s ability to communicate or reach me. In other words, it appeared that my website would be down for a period of time in late Dec/Jan timeframe.
I was not at all surprised when a few days after this particular reading I received a notice from my web hosting company stating in Dec/Jan they were going to change servers and I may experience some issues with my website!
Naturally, wanting to avoid any interruption of my business, I made the decision to change hosting companies prior to this ‘big switch over’. Ever thankful for being forewarned by my advisor, I was feeling rather smug with myself for being proactive and avoiding a major website crash.
Interestingly enough, even though I changed hosting companies to avoid the interruption, I still experienced technical problems with my website! Although the website did not crash as shown in my earlier reading, for the past two weeks the new website has been plagued with technical issues; pages disappeared, links not working properly, and the entire email system was down and my clients could not reach me through the site!
Ahem, so much for changing the outcome, eh? LOL Regardless of my actions, I still had major website issues. The upside to this story is that, now that the bugs are worked out, I am very happy with my new site & new features—so apparently making the change was the right decision for me and I am exactly where I am suppose to be!
The point of all of this is that even though it is natural to want to know the final outcome of any situation, keep in mind things can change or shift. Ask your advisor what is your best course of action, what you need to know or learn, and the most probable outcome if you let go and do nothing. These are far better questions to ask than wanting to know the ‘definite outcome’. J
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Blessings,
Melody “Lil Mel”
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching