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Bouncing Back after a Relationship Crisis...

I've just received a truly inspiring email from a client who had been having a relationship crisis.

She wrote to tell me that things are going well for her again, after much pain. I have asked her if I can share her story with you, in the hope that it will inspire others.

She has been through a lot lately. She had some big decisions to make about the future of her relationship, after some painful discoveries about her partner’s behavior.

After much heartache, growth and introspection, they have both decided to work it out together and work through their relationship crisis. Their relationship and life are on the mend.

Although it will take some time and talking through, they are rebuilding their relationship, putting the crisis behind them. She reports she can now see a future together and a way through the pain. Hugely courageous of both of them and a testament to the love they have for each other.

Relationships can recover from a crisis such as theirs. Often in fact, they are stronger, more on track and more connected than they ever were. Sometimes the crises can serve as a wake up call for both parties, and the passion, love and commitment is re kindled.

The relationship evolves to a new, enlightened level. Aren’t happy endings great?

   Melody “Lil Mel”

 

   Melody "Lil Mel" McGowan
   Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor

   Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching

 

   I will be available for calls here on Keen throughout the weekend with breaks.  If I am showing unavailable or on a call, please place a callback to ensure we connect.

   I look forward to sharing with everyone this weekend.

Published Friday, June 20, 2008 8:01 AM by Advisor Lil Mel

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# re: Bouncing Back after a Relationship Crisis... @ Friday, June 20, 2008 7:25 AM

I wish your client true true happines from my heart, and I hope it all works out for her and her partner in exactly the way they would like it to.
I split from my partner of 7 years last summer his behaviour made it impossible for me even though I loved him with ALL my heart and still do, however I have lost his love as he has already found another woman who lives in the same town.  I have to see them everyday and that pain is sometimes so unbearable, and is making me feel so very very unhappy.  Beleive me I am trying so hard to move on but because of the split I also lost my business and he has left me in heaps of debt, so much so that I may loose everythig I have worked so hard for and this year I hit 50 so its a bit tougher to pick oneself up and dust down getting a job alone is tough!.
I so wish we could have worked it out but after he spatt in my face and used mind games and verbal abuse I had no alternative except to do what I did, he still wants to be friends with me and that makes it even harder when my feelings are still so strong rightly or wrongly I cannot help what I feel inside and yes sometimes this whole thing makes me feel quite vindictive as his new lady spent 3 months grooming me and befriending me to find out about him and then hey presto I found out by another friend that she was now dating him and she makes it so obvious that I dislike going into town as she is always there arms rouund his neck kissing and cuddling outide of his shop.

I know I must get over it however is hard, so honestly I do hope that these two are happy and they are so lucky they have another chance go for it and my love to you.

and to everyone a happy and harmonious Solstice
XXX

Tiggs

# re: Bouncing Back after a Relationship Crisis... @ Friday, June 20, 2008 10:18 AM

As a fellow reader I am so often proud of the personal and emotional growth that some of my callers have gone through. And if I have played any part of that (even a tiny bit) I am happy for that and honored to have been a part of it....it's one of the great things that goes along with what I do...
Joan

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# re: Bouncing Back after a Relationship Crisis... @ Friday, June 20, 2008 1:25 PM

Dear Mel:

It is so rewarding when you see clients work through their crisis and begin life anew for all too often we deal with those that the pain is so intense that there seems to be no end to it.  It is a matter of taking charge of what you will allow in your life and setting aside that which you have no control of.  I feel in my heart that love will survive as long it is recognized and you move forward from the heart.

Thanks for the uplifting blog to day Mel

Rosie

Rosalea

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