SUICIDES ON THE HOLIDAYS...
I often hear, "I cant go on anymore, these holidays are too much for me, I'm alone and have no one to be with or who cares" This is so terrible for me to hear someone so depressed and alone on a holiday that they want to take their life. No one should be alone at that time. But, they are. What do I say to these people who litterly want to take their life on this holiday season? Well...I can tell you that things can and do change in a heart beat, and if you took your life today, what IF tomorrow brought in that wonderful person you have been waiting for all your life, or brought back the love of your life? You'd be GONE.... NO chance of love then for sure. Every day is a new day, a new start, with new things happening in it, one day could be a horrible day and maybe for weeks even, we've all had them, But, then comes the new day or week and wella, You meet that person when you least expect it, maybe standing in a line at a favorite store, or at gas station pump. It can happen that easily, believe me, I hear it all the time. For some of us it takes a little longer, but, even though it seems as if this will never happen it will and does in time. We must be patient, for the Universe gives us what we need when the time is right. There are always lessons to be learned and once learned then things happen OR happen for you to learn other lessons too. I know it is hard on the holidays to be alone or feel unloved, but you could be worse off, maybe dead ( with no chance of love) or half dead, or maybe even in a wheel chair paralyzed. Thank God every day for what you do have, pray and ask for help. But most of all keep yourself busy at this time. No one is happy all the time, we all have things happen to us, but if you try to think possitive and find the best in what you do have you will get through this, and then and only then If you are here and didnt take your life will you be able to find the love one you desire...Hang in there, it is just another day, and it will be over before you know it...Blessings and Love Rippi